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Cheated


Question Posted Monday April 25 2011, 1:45 pm

My guy and I are both 18. He lives in a different country and we met when he was here on exchange. We instantly connected and our relationship went very fast. He left back to his country two months after we met and we did the whole long distance thing for 6 months. A little more info: three weeks after we met(and we said we were dating) he kissed another girl and lied to me about it for 6 months saying they didn't kiss, I always knew deep down that they did, so when my friend told me I should kiss this other guy I did. I told my boyfriend the next day because I could never keep something like that from him. So after he went back to his country we had a big fight one night and I went and kissed another guy. So after being in a long dist. relationship for 6 months I went and visited him for 2 1/2 months and then a week after I came home he broke up with me because he said it was best for me. And I had sex with a guy and now he says I cheated on him again. What do I do to get him back? and show him I can change?

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Xui answered Monday April 25 2011, 5:45 pm:
If you two broke up and you went and had sex then technically you didn't cheat on him, Also he left you. Did he not?


I would of personally ended it right when I knew he kissed someone else. If he is in a relationship with you then he should only be with you. I'm going to be honest but long distant relationships are very difficult, You have to be willing to work it out on both behalves. I think for once when he said it would be best for the two of you if you were apart he may of been right. If you still want to proceed in getting him back all you can do is talk to him, Tell him how you feel and work from there.

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