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He won't go on top becaue he is afraid he will hurt me!
Hey so I know my boyfriend likes being on top (during sex) and he knows I hate being on top yet whenever we have sex he refuses to be on top. He says he's too strong and I'm too small an he'll "go too hard" and hurt me. Would it actually hurt...? I'm 5'5 110lbs and he's 6'2 185. How can I show him I can "handle" it? Haha
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He is only 75lbs heavier than you are. The majority of his weight is going to be centered from his pelvis to his knees while he is thrusting. The pelvis area is one of the strongest parts of he body so it is doubtful he will hurt you. If he does layout over you he can still control how much weight he places on you with his elbows, pelvis and knees.
It sounds like your boyfriend is somewhat of a novice at sex. You need to be patient with him and to teach him. You need to teach him that your not as fragile as he thinks and be thankful that he is a considerate enough person to be fearful of hurting you. Their are not many like him out there. He just may be a keeper.
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I'm with Abby.
Just tell him to try it just once, nice and slow. Remind him that people all over the world have sex with different size/shape of people and they're just fine. If by "too hard" he means "too rough" then just remind him to slow down.
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He's not going to hurt you, it just sounds like he likes it better when your on top.
He can go as 'hard' on bottom or on top or in just about any position.
Refuse to get on top and see what happens. You'll enjoy it!
-Abby
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