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Girls and Guys rate the situation please :-)


Posted Saturday July 16 2011, 6:51 pm

Just as a survey, how would you guys rate/handle a situation with:
A girl and guy (18 years both almost 19)
Guy doesnt pay for girl, girl always drives guy around because the guy doesnt have a car. They both say they love each other, talk about marriage, and kids. Guy doesnt have a job yet but aspires to have one; girl is going away to college, guy is going to a community college and they both plan to stay together.
What if you were the boy or girl, would you guys say this is a good realtionship?

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i have a boyfriend, but another guy asked me out....


Posted Saturday July 16 2011, 3:36 pm

female, 17. okay, SO, its summer. I was talking to 3 guys, nothing big, just summer flirting, ive hung out with 2 a lot and the third one not so much, im not really interested in that one. the guy i was talking to first is really nice and he asked me to be his prom date, 2 months later he asked me out and i said yes. this weekend he went on a cruise and the 2nd guy i was interested in asked me to go out and just hang out with him, i said yes and took 2 friends with me, i didnt think it was anything serious. we ended up going to the movies and he paid for me and everything, he texted me today and said he wants to be more than friends. heres the thing, i dont really want to because last summer we had a summer-fling going on and then he sudden...

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idk whats going on .


Posted Saturday July 16 2011, 2:42 pm

heythere! btw, imma 14yearold girl. So, there's this 18year old guy who claims that he likes me, but i dont know how true is it :/ , i've read from the internet that if a guy likes you, he'll give you a call at least once a day.or drop a random text asking how was your day and so on. I dont know how true, but im going with that concept. Yeahhh,so he doesnt even call me or text me! :o what does this show? Or is he afraid of disturbing me? :/ , im really confused about this! Please help me! Thanks a million(: !

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We're not working


Posted Saturday July 16 2011, 11:46 am

So I have been dating this guy for two months, the first boyfriend I have had in a while because I stopped dating after a serious relationship. But I really like this guy, he's amazing, but he has a temper and easily offended and is very sensitive. We joke around and call each other names and it's always fun. Well I went camping last weekend without him and when I got home the first thing I did was go so him, his friend was there and I didn't know so I slept in his bed for an hour or two then went home, this was the last time we saw each other. Well my phone has been broken lately so I haven't been able to really talk to him. I talk to him maybe twenty minutes a day through verizonwireless online texting. Usually when I get off work, we bot...

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a love thats tearing me apart, confusionn :(


Posted Saturday July 16 2011, 11:20 am

right, im 17 and im struggling right now with a sticky situation i seem really confused with my love life, like i dont know what i want right now.
i've dated this guy for over a year and it was the best but around november last year he ended it then he came running back to me , so i decided alright il give him a chance but hmmm i went on holiday right and when i came back he kept saying we were gonna get together but now its been 7 months and im tired of waiting i still have feelings for him & such but i got to the point where i cant take it anymore. he wanted to see me but i rejected him ,
another thing is that i've known this other guy for quite some time but recently we started talking alot and i really like speaking to...

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My boyfriend gets nervous when I don't text him back


Posted Saturday July 16 2011, 9:02 am

Hey there. Well my boyfriend is always super nervous whenever i dont text him back and whatnot. I tell him not to be but it persists.
Im 16 and female


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Boyfriend's parents don't like me


Posted Saturday July 16 2011, 6:59 am

18/f

My boyfriend's parents/family just doesn't like me. The reason for that is because last semester I was taking 27 credit hours and I worked 24 hours... His parents thought that I was a bad influence because they thought that I didn't want to spend time with his family or get to know them. Instead, they just saw what they saw. They saw him go out everyday, and he started disobeying his parents... Because that was the moment where the excitement of dating me, I was his first priority. (That's what he told me) He said that they understood part was his fault because it was his choice to go out and everything. The reason why I didn't go see them as often was for a couple of reasons, I didn't have much time. Because his family ...

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Does he love me


Posted Saturday July 16 2011, 12:20 am

he talks to me like im just a friend but he was the one who hugs me and holds my hand and said he loved me. I feek as if he just said he liked me just beacause. we havent talked in a week and wen he pik=cked up the phone today we had nothing to talk about but he kept going on and on about how this girl i go to school with is hot and stuff and keeps saying it. Does he love me like i love him? we are both 11 and i am a girl.

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boyssss


Posted Friday July 15 2011, 7:49 pm

what do guys really and truthfully look for in a girl???

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Porn in monogamous relationships


Posted Friday July 15 2011, 7:41 pm

So, my boyfriend has had an issue with escaping into gaming and porn. It got so bad at one point, that he would turn me down on a fairly regular basis, but was jerking off daily at work in the bathroom.

We had a lot of fights/tears over this, I asked him to cut back and every time he said he would, but if I looked at his phone, he hadnt. He told me I can check any time, but of course I'm sure he can edit his history. He has always told me he would never edit his history.

Recently, we had such a huge fight over all of this, to the point that I was very upset and sick about all of this, and wondering whether I could live this way. He promised that he would do his best to stay away, that he would massively cut ba...

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I feel like I am not the right person for him


Posted Friday July 15 2011, 3:46 pm

i've been with this guy for almost a year now,i love him a lot but i feel like i'm not the right person for him,he wants a lot & at times i feel like i'm incompetent.

we fight about small things,things that don't really matter,things like him not being able to reach me because my phone is off,reason-network problems,& he knows that...

we fought yesterday morning & the day before,i have a boil at the mouth of my virgina & i told him about it,he said to me my blood is dirty.i then asked him if my blood is dirty how can the SANBS let me donate blood if my blood was dirty, then he said to me i have an sti...

ican't take it any more..what should i do?

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I lied, so now I am the bad guy?


Posted Friday July 15 2011, 3:41 pm

i lied to a friend about some messages that were sent to me about him by his friends.they werent anything but negativity.was it bad me for prevent him from seeing what people had to say about him?..because apparently,now im the BAD GUY.

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Best friend stole my crush


Posted Friday July 15 2011, 11:20 am

what do you do if your best friends steals your crush what do you do or tell her ????

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He's my friend but I like him now


Posted Friday July 15 2011, 6:48 am

Hi 15f I Havel liked a guy for close to a year and I've finally sorta got him outta my head by falling for my friend he's like a big softhearted guy and he's a ladies man asinine eveyone loves him not in a love love way. But I'm in a different country and he's here to should I just keep flirting bc I kinda want something to happen like a kiss but I kinda don't bc the group I'm with were all gonna stay at this place with no adults and like some people say we would be cute together like but Idk if he likes me he always tries to kinda be by me but there's always the other girls who are just friends but they get so much in the way idk what to do help please

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is my boyfriend trying to break up or what?


Posted Friday July 15 2011, 6:01 am

me and my boyfriend have been dating for 1 and a half year and we care and love each other very much but soemtimes when we argue, he says,'it worries him, that we are so different'. what does he exactly mean? does he want to break up or something else? because i'm quite moody and he's stubborn but at the end of the day, we forget everything and act normal. the good thing is he doesn't hold a grudge. so, if a boyfriend wants to break up does he talk like that or is he scared of loosing me or breaking up? please help. thanks everyone for your answers.

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I was dating two at the same time, dumped one, and now that he is engaged I want him instead!


Posted Friday July 15 2011, 5:11 am

I'm a nineteen year old girl from South Africa and tomorrow's my one year anniversary. I should really be happy about it but I'm not. The thing is I still love my ex-boyfriend, whom I've been dating while I was dating my current boyfriend, so technically speaking I've been dating two guys at the same time and they had no idea. Anyway I broke up with my ex a few months ago because I was leaving for Ireland and now that I'm back in South Africa, I really miss him a lot! I still love him. My boyfriend and I have been through a lot, he wants to get married and all and that's not what i want anymore. I want to be with my ex but I can't because a few weeks ago he called me and told me that he's getting married next year and that his girlfriend mi...

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confused..?


Posted Friday July 15 2011, 2:05 am

hey :) I'm sorry if this is too long. I just need some advice. Thanks.
I hadn't seen my boyfriend since last Sunday. He told me to go to his house today and i went. I went at 6pm. we stayed there having a good time. Then his friend came over. After an hour passed his friend said he had to go to the park to be with his friends which are girls too. My boyfriend told me he was going to walk me so he told his friend to go with him. I felt very disappointed at this because i went to be with him but he decided to go to the park and just stay stay with his friends. When they were walking me my boyfriend friend turned in a street and he called him and told him to walk me to my house because he was going to the park with him too. I really don...

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just got to college and already found a guy I like


Posted Friday July 15 2011, 1:12 am

I just recently started college for the summer term and live in suite style living,and I already met a really great guy. At first, i was kinda shy around him but then we became really great friends. We talk and hangout all the time, if anything he talks to me as if i'm one of the guys. I've always been the type to get along good with guys ,talk about sex and curse a lot so guys think i'm pretty chill. As we talked more, he kinda said how he believes relationships start off as like best friends, which is exactly how i feel. Normally when i like a guy, they like me at first and then they put me in the friend zone. but in this case, since he said that, I guess I'm starting it off with the friend zone. It took me a while to figure this out but ...

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why break up with him over something he can't help?


Posted Friday July 15 2011, 12:33 am

My boyfriend suffers from multi-personality disorder. We almost broke up last night but finally he told me what was going on even after he told me I deserve so much better than him. But somehow I just couldn't bring myself to do it.

He told me his disorder causes him to have different personalities. When we first started dating, he was all over me and complimenting me and showering me with love even when we weren't with each other in person. And then just suddenly he changed and I felt like he lost interest in me. But he told me this person he is right now "doesn't feel like talking, doesn't feel like fixing things" and if he isn't accepted as he is then we're not going to work out, and eventually if I give him tim...

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im having wet dreams over a guy i met only once! please help!


Posted Thursday July 14 2011, 10:39 pm

13 f
I have these thoughts of a guy i met at my neighbors birthday party like months ago. He was really nice and it kinda even seemed like he liked me cuz his little brother was giving him looks and stuff.i still talk to him over Facebook and everything but i still want to see him again in person not through the computer because he barely gets on facebook and when he gets on sometimes he doesnt answer my messages. well lets just say i really really like him and im dying to see him again and i know that im not bothering him because i asked him to tell me if im bothering him and he hasnt said anything at all. so my question is how do i stop myself from getting... uh lets just say aroused 24-7 when i think of him. i really need to learn...

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