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i have a boyfriend, but another guy asked me out....
female, 17. okay, SO, its summer. I was talking to 3 guys, nothing big, just summer flirting, ive hung out with 2 a lot and the third one not so much, im not really interested in that one. the guy i was talking to first is really nice and he asked me to be his prom date, 2 months later he asked me out and i said yes. this weekend he went on a cruise and the 2nd guy i was interested in asked me to go out and just hang out with him, i said yes and took 2 friends with me, i didnt think it was anything serious. we ended up going to the movies and he paid for me and everything, he texted me today and said he wants to be more than friends. heres the thing, i dont really want to because last summer we had a summer-fling going on and then he suddendly stopped talking to me and started going out with another girl, so i dont know what to tell him, he doesnt know i have a boyfriend nor do i want him to know at this time. thanks in advance(:
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Just tell him how you feel let him know that you really like him but a friendship is all you can offer right now good luck
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Hey,
it doesn't sound as if you really want to be tied down to anybody right now, and that's fine. You should make sure your current boyfriend knows that you still hang out with other guys; this way, he won't get too serious about the relationship and think that it's something more than what it is right now. As far as the other guy, the one who wants to be more than friends, you should keep a healthy friendship between the two of you, and leave it at that. You don't want to start liking him even more, leave a good guy for him, and then open up the chance for him to drop out on you a SECOND time. You don't have to tell him that you have a boyfriend, but you should tell him you're more comfortable being the way you are with him right now.
Hope I helped =)
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