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I feel like I am not the right person for him
i've been with this guy for almost a year now,i love him a lot but i feel like i'm not the right person for him,he wants a lot & at times i feel like i'm incompetent.
we fight about small things,things that don't really matter,things like him not being able to reach me because my phone is off,reason-network problems,& he knows that...
we fought yesterday morning & the day before,i have a boil at the mouth of my virgina & i told him about it,he said to me my blood is dirty.i then asked him if my blood is dirty how can the SANBS let me donate blood if my blood was dirty, then he said to me i have an sti...
ican't take it any more..what should i do?
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Dear "I feel like I am not the right person for him"
I think a better way to put it is that he is not right for you.
If he loved you, he would help you with your problems, instead of attacking you with nasty comments and degrading accusations.
I doubt that the blood banks would allow you to give blood if you had an STD or an STI.
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As far as your man is concerned, I feel that he is insecure and needy, as well as immature and mean.
Forgive him for being ignorant, and making ignorant comments. However, I feel that he is wrong for you. His energy is weak, and scattered, while yours is strong and focused.
You have only been with him for almost a year. The two of you should still be all over each other with affection and curiosity. Instead, I feel an imbalance of energy causing problems.
I say let go, and move on. You need energy to match your own. However, I do not love him the way you do. Ultimately, you will decide what is best for you.
Good Luck!
Doktor Tammy
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tell him how you feel and if he dosent except you for you then what the hey....hes's not worth it and i know you might love him but if you love something set it free...if it comes back it's yours if it doesnt...it was never yours to begin with...it might be hard to let him go but then you will find somebody better
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If you love him you have to talk to him and let him know how you feel about all the negatiity and try to work things out. Every relationship has their bad times. But the bad times make the relationship stronger. If you are not happy with the way you are being treated then move on and find someone else. Good luck
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Every relationship has it's ups and downs. If you really love him try to work things out. Never give up on something that once made you smile. If you give up now you might regret it in the future. If you feel like you can't take it anymore and their is no way to fix your relationship then break up with him. Just be prepared for the consequences. I hope I helped you.
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