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just got to college and already found a guy I like
I just recently started college for the summer term and live in suite style living,and I already met a really great guy. At first, i was kinda shy around him but then we became really great friends. We talk and hangout all the time, if anything he talks to me as if i'm one of the guys. I've always been the type to get along good with guys ,talk about sex and curse a lot so guys think i'm pretty chill. As we talked more, he kinda said how he believes relationships start off as like best friends, which is exactly how i feel. Normally when i like a guy, they like me at first and then they put me in the friend zone. but in this case, since he said that, I guess I'm starting it off with the friend zone. It took me a while to figure this out but he actually has a girlfriend. She lives a while away but he texts and talks to her often. He never really mentions her to me unless we are in a group where someone brings her up. I don't quite know what to do because ive been down this road before and have always liked guys with girlfriends. I feel as though he may like me too but then again he could just be being extra friendly. He would never cheat on her and I would never expect him to. I feel as though if i give up,i may be missing out on a good chance because this is the nicest guy i've ever liked. It seems as though i would have a chance since we go to the same school and she's going to another college. I may be jumping to conclusions to fast but I'm very confused on what to do. I like him a lot and we hangout all the time. If anything he's my best friend here so far.Help!
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The best advice I can give is to sit down with him and tell him how you feel. Let him know that you will be his friend no matter what he choses. But if he choses to stay with the other girl you have to accept that and just be his friend. Who knows maybe in the future he will be single and come looking for you. But until then you have to respect the fact that he is in a relationship and take a step back good luck and best wishes
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