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I was dating two at the same time, dumped one, and now that he is engaged I want him instead!
I'm a nineteen year old girl from South Africa and tomorrow's my one year anniversary. I should really be happy about it but I'm not. The thing is I still love my ex-boyfriend, whom I've been dating while I was dating my current boyfriend, so technically speaking I've been dating two guys at the same time and they had no idea. Anyway I broke up with my ex a few months ago because I was leaving for Ireland and now that I'm back in South Africa, I really miss him a lot! I still love him. My boyfriend and I have been through a lot, he wants to get married and all and that's not what i want anymore. I want to be with my ex but I can't because a few weeks ago he called me and told me that he's getting married next year and that his girlfriend might be pregnant. That really hurt but i don't know if i should believe him , because we broke up in April and he told me that last month(June) so technically speaking he met this girl in May , and got engaged in that same month and also got her pregnant! Is it possible? Or is he trying to make me jealous? Because it's working. I really don't know what to do about all this, I need to get over him and be happy with my boyfriend :(
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It seems like things are moving fast with you ex. And if it is true. You just have to move on. He is getting married. And he is having a baby. You cant get in between them and break up a family it isnt right. Maybe he is telling the truth, it happened fast, but sometimes when people meet they just know they found that special one. Also you never know just think of what you were doing with the two guys... He could have been doing the same, he could have had two girls at the same time you and her. And you couldnt really get angry with him for it because you did it too. I suggest you just forget the relationship with him and be happy with the one you have. good luck and best wishes
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