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stay or dump??
soo ive been dating this guy for the past few months. and this is our 3rd time dating( i broke up with him everytime) my friends want me to break up with him but i just tell them to back off and stay out of our relationship. he makes me soo mad sometimes. all he wants to do is talk about baseball and wanting to sleep with me. he claims he "loves me" and every time he says he does i feel guilty saying it back so i joke around and say who doesnt??
my friends have told me they are concerned about us because when hes around me hes always touching me and rubbing up on me. we walk home from school together. i have to turn befor he does. we hung and kiss befor i leave but every day he trys to stick his tunge down my throat. we have a very complicated relationship. i do care about him but i just feel bad that im dating him again. the only reason why im dating him this time is because he was begging me and asking to "take him back" every day.
i dont really know what im trying to say. i just dont know if i should just still date him cause i do truly care about him or break up with him. i need help! please help! thanks!
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There is not such thing as a perfect guy but there is such a thing as a horrible boyfriend. I am not saying your boyfriend is a horrible one but I think he might be a bad one FOR U in certain situations. Some of these situations occur a lot which is why i advise you to think CAREFULLY.
I am not you therefore I will not tell you to break up with him because I don't have the feelings you have for him.
First of all....it seems YOUR boyfriend seems to care more about baseball then YOU. A relationship is 2 people not 2 people and a sport. I know how it feels to talk to a guy and get bored because ALL he talks about is sports!!!! It is INFURIATING that you think about killing yourself. When you find the one....you will have the conversation that bind you and make your relationship interesting. I don't see that in your relationship. With that there is more of a chance of failure.
Secondly.....SEX SEX SEX SEX.........doesn't make a relationship!!! I understand HE IS A GUY but its too much. DO NOT.I REPEAT DO NOT have SEX because you want to keep your boyfriend. No offense but it seems to be the REAL reason he is with you. i COMMEND your friends for trying to make you break up with him but then again...They are not u!!
With that ask yourself WHAT attracted him to you and HOW you made a relationship. List something that made you so interested in the first place ignoring LOOKS and other things......think about what made you choose him as a partner.
After that just think and make your decision. Whatever you decide........will be whatever you want. Don't listen to anybody but yourself but I ask you to think about all the bad things and the GOOD things that have happened with him and just try to see which ways the most. :) GOOD LUCK
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