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hey :) I'm sorry if this is too long. I just need some advice. Thanks.
I hadn't seen my boyfriend since last Sunday. He told me to go to his house today and i went. I went at 6pm. we stayed there having a good time. Then his friend came over. After an hour passed his friend said he had to go to the park to be with his friends which are girls too. My boyfriend told me he was going to walk me so he told his friend to go with him. I felt very disappointed at this because i went to be with him but he decided to go to the park and just stay stay with his friends. When they were walking me my boyfriend friend turned in a street and he called him and told him to walk me to my house because he was going to the park with him too. I really don't know what to think. He pulled me over and he asked why am i mad, i told him i was okay. He said he wanted to be cool with me not arguing then he asked for a kiss and whatever i gave it to him and then left to my friends house because at least she had time for me. I really love him but i don't know what to do :( I'm just disappointed.
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it may be that he's just shy to be only around you. try to talk to him and tell him how you really feel... because if you don't he's not going to know... but a true boyfriend that really cares would know that somethings wrong and would fix it and know whats bothering you.
well if i was in your situation i would try to stop texting and calling him and communicating with him and see if he text or calls you because if he wanted to talk to you then he would.
"sometimes the best way to get someone's attention is to stop giving them yours"
i hope i helped and good luck!
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So I read your question, and let me get this straight. You went over to his house, but his friend came too. His friend told your boyfriend to come to the park with his other friends. Your boyfriend walked you home and then left to go to the park? is that correct?
Well it sounds like to me, you just really want to spend alone time with your boyfriend. There is nothing wrong with that. I completely understand.
But let me say this, there's nothing wrong with him wanting to spend time with his other friends too.
So in your question, nobody is at fault here. It was just a little misunderstanding. He wanted to spend time with his friends, but you just wanted to spend time with him.
Let me point out a problem you have. You weren't honest with your boyfriend. He asked you why you were mad, and instead of being honest with him and talking to him about you, you refused to tell him and lied and said everything was ok.. but obviously it wasn't. So next time he asks what's wrong, I suggest you tell the truth and talk to him about it. The only way to solve your problems with him is to communicate with him about the problems. Problems won't fix themselves.. you both need to fix them.
So now, you should call him and meet up with him in person and tell him how you really feel. Speak from your heart. Tell him you were upset that night because you were hoping to spend alone time with him, and you were disappointed when he decided to meet with his other friends too.
But let me warn you.. you need to let him spend time with his other friends too. You can't hog him up. How would you feel if he got upset at you everytime you tried to hang out with your friends? Sometimes its okay if you guys hang out with other friends separately. Or if you don't want to spend time separately, ask him if you can tag along and meet his other friends. There's a certain point when you need to give him some space and let him be with his friends, and he needs to let you be with your friends. Then after a little space, then you need to have alone time together.
Try planning a surprise for him, make him dinner, go out to dinner, see a movie, go on a picnic, stargaze, go sightseeing, biking etc. That will give you 2 the alone time you need :)
Inbox me if you need any more help :)
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In relationship.......there are disappointments and I know it hurts.
Nobody wants to be a distant girlfriend or a clingy one which you are neither.
I believe that you should tell your boyfriend how you feel so you would understand. He is just a guy and he doesn't know how you feel sometimes. I know what you are thinking and don't worry.....he won't do anything drastic because you told him how you felt.
Just tell him the TRUTH. Honesty is one of THE MOST IMPORTANT thing in a relationship.
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