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So I have been dating this guy for two months, the first boyfriend I have had in a while because I stopped dating after a serious relationship. But I really like this guy, he's amazing, but he has a temper and easily offended and is very sensitive. We joke around and call each other names and it's always fun. Well I went camping last weekend without him and when I got home the first thing I did was go so him, his friend was there and I didn't know so I slept in his bed for an hour or two then went home, this was the last time we saw each other. Well my phone has been broken lately so I haven't been able to really talk to him. I talk to him maybe twenty minutes a day through verizonwireless online texting. Usually when I get off work, we both work so we only hang out certain days, he worked til 7 wednesday but I expected we'd hang otu because it was our 2 month anniversary, he asked me to go the movies with him and I said yes, I told him to look up playing times and he said he was too lazy because he just got off work. And I said you're a lazy little grumpy boy after work aren't you? (: and he said he didn't want to hang out since obviously he's being a lazy grump and then just stopped talking to me. So we didn't go on our date, then my friend B went over to his house the next night because they're best friends, they got super drunk and it made me mad that he would hang out with his friend but no me on our two month, even when he worked even longer that day. I texted him and told him and upset me and he didn't reply. the next day I texted him off my friends phone at work and told him we need to fix things or it isn't going to work and I want it to work. He said no what's your problem? And I said I just want us to treat each other nicer and try not to take things so hard because we always end up fighting, and he said well you act so rude sometimes I feel like I am back with my ex. and I got super upset and told him that I don't want to be compared to her any more and I try my best and i don't want to be thought of as her. and my friend b told me that my boyfriend wasn't sure if he should stay with me I told him I wasn't sure either. But I really want to fix it, I really adore this boy and he lights up my life. What should I say or do to fix it? please help :/
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Sweetheart, you are too young to be going through that. That is ridiculous. End it because he is rude and like you said easily offended. If you continue you to date then the fighting is just going to get worse and by the looks of it, "it's always your fault." You don't need the stress and there are way better guys out there that are going to treat you like a princess. Would you rather have someone who would do anything for you? Or someone who is constantly putting blame on you for nothing? You will feel so much better if you break up with him. You can move on and become happier and the relationship hasn't been long so it won't take such a toll on you. You will find yourself happier and more confident and a new guy will walk on by and be so much better than the last. If you don't break up with him just be careful. Good luck my dear. You are in thought! xoxo!
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End It. He's tired and just not man enough to do it. Simple answer your not happy with it and even though he said his actions should be the same but if they are not than don't be the train he has to take to get to the one he wants
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Sit down with him and tell him that you love and care about him and you dont want to lose him and tell him how you feel about everything. Let him know that it is hurting you and if he loves and cares for you he will try to change this. If he doesnt then leave and find a good man who will love you ad treat you the way you deserve to be treated good luck and best wishes
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