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Me and my boyfriend are planning a threesome for the first time. I'm not sure what all I should do any advice for a first timer (link)
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Numero uno pick someone you know but aren't quite friends with that way you won't have to think back on it when your with them if it was bad.
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How do you make yourself get insomnia? Please don't go telling me that I don't want to have it and crap like that. I have my reasons for needing to know that. So if you know, please do tell. (link)
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Its simple just mess with your internal clock so your body won't know when it should sleep, alternate your sleep patterns that way your body will adjust to your weird patterns and you'll have a hard time sleeping.
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So I have been dating this guy for two months, the first boyfriend I have had in a while because I stopped dating after a serious relationship. But I really like this guy, he's amazing, but he has a temper and easily offended and is very sensitive. We joke around and call each other names and it's always fun. Well I went camping last weekend without him and when I got home the first thing I did was go so him, his friend was there and I didn't know so I slept in his bed for an hour or two then went home, this was the last time we saw each other. Well my phone has been broken lately so I haven't been able to really talk to him. I talk to him maybe twenty minutes a day through verizonwireless online texting. Usually when I get off work, we both work so we only hang out certain days, he worked til 7 wednesday but I expected we'd hang otu because it was our 2 month anniversary, he asked me to go the movies with him and I said yes, I told him to look up playing times and he said he was too lazy because he just got off work. And I said you're a lazy little grumpy boy after work aren't you? (: and he said he didn't want to hang out since obviously he's being a lazy grump and then just stopped talking to me. So we didn't go on our date, then my friend B went over to his house the next night because they're best friends, they got super drunk and it made me mad that he would hang out with his friend but no me on our two month, even when he worked even longer that day. I texted him and told him and upset me and he didn't reply. the next day I texted him off my friends phone at work and told him we need to fix things or it isn't going to work and I want it to work. He said no what's your problem? And I said I just want us to treat each other nicer and try not to take things so hard because we always end up fighting, and he said well you act so rude sometimes I feel like I am back with my ex. and I got super upset and told him that I don't want to be compared to her any more and I try my best and i don't want to be thought of as her. and my friend b told me that my boyfriend wasn't sure if he should stay with me I told him I wasn't sure either. But I really want to fix it, I really adore this boy and he lights up my life. What should I say or do to fix it? please help :/ (link)
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End It. He's tired and just not man enough to do it. Simple answer your not happy with it and even though he said his actions should be the same but if they are not than don't be the train he has to take to get to the one he wants
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Ok. So at school, not a lot of guys liek me or notice me at all. Can anyone please give me some advice on how to get guys to notice me and like me and eventually ask me out? (link)
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Getting a guy to notice you is like everything else that wants attention, presentation. That might sound shallow but it is true think of fancy places they don't put pictures of food on the menu because the presentation is off putting but the name sounds good your case is reversed look good thats how you get them to notice than You get to choose.
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I have these thoughts of a guy i met at my neighbors birthday party like months ago. He was really nice and it kinda even seemed like he liked me cuz his little brother was giving him looks and stuff.i still talk to him over Facebook and everything but i still want to see him again in person not through the computer because he barely gets on facebook and when he gets on sometimes he doesnt answer my messages. well lets just say i really really like him and im dying to see him again and i know that im not bothering him because i asked him to tell me if im bothering him and he hasnt said anything at all. so my question is how do i stop myself from getting... uh lets just say aroused 24-7 when i think of him. i really need to learn how to control this because this could get really bad. when i think of him i get wet and my pantiliner cant hold all of that liquid and im using a very absorbent pantiler. it absorbs like a pad like seriously. my pants get all wet. but im not worried about odor because ive got all that under control its just the wetness. i know i cantuse tampons or anything... well watever this is getting off topic i just want to know how to control these thoughts. Any suggestions cuz anything will help.
Thanks in advance to everyone that answers i really appreciate it! I want to know what all of you think! I will accept and consider everything! Thanks again! (link)
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Do what guys do think of something that will turn you off immediatly like your dad naked or grandparent.
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I'm 15 And Pregnant I Just Found Out And I'm 14 Weeks And My Mom Wants Me To Get An Abortion But Yes I Don't Want The Abortion But The Thing Is... I Haven't Told My Dad Cause He'll Kick Me And My Mom Out Of The House And We'll Have No Where To Go? No Family We Have Here Where We Live So It's Hard On Us She's Really Mad At Me And The Father And The Baby's Daddy Is Still In The Picture And Wants The Baby No Matter What But My Mom Wants To Put A Restraining Order Against Him Since He Is 17 We're 2 Years And 8 Months Apart And She Wants To Get Him For Rape Which Isn't True, But Me And The Father Want The Baby It's Just My Parents Opinion. And If He Gets Put Away Again It'll Be For 6 Years I Don't Want That For Our Baby And Not Have Our Baby Grow Up Without A Dad Or Aleast Knowing His/Her Daddy. What Can I Do??? :| (link)
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The thing I found most wrong with your question is how many times your mother keeps cropping up with her opinion, while it is helpful the fact is that in 10-20 years time you'll be one feel guilty about if you in through with it. But don't be thinking that having the baby will make everything great between you and the dad or that you'll be happy for the first 3 years you'll lose your and at your age ppsd is a high likely hood. Besides from helping raise my bro and sis its worth it once their older
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when i was 10 yrs old i cut my wrist for the first time. it was only to see how it felt, then i did it again when i was 12. my mom was dating this guy who abused her&i didn't like it at all. i even told her&all she said to me was 'be nice'. he moved in&i was furious, they both fought all the time&everyone else hated him. i've been self harming since the day he moved in.
im now 14&just recently cut&burned my right arm. i want to stop but it feels like im addicted
please tell me how i can stop.? (link)
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I'm a boy and I once reached a stage in my life where I didn't understand my emotional feelings so I turned to the physical harm because that is simple to understand. I knew why I felt that pain and how got it and that is what you should do first, figure out how your living situation makes you feel with this other man and your mom. Once that is done you'll feel the need to but and harm yourself less everytime but I must warm you those emotions are like Stefano DiMera they'll never truly leave you but will vanish from time to time. Now most importantly you have to take care not to experience vastly contrasting emotions in short spaces of time that could lead to suicidal thoughts you might be telling yourself never but even I have had them and if it wasn't for the fear of punishment for such an act I would have already. Find the one thing that gives you meaning so you have something to calm you down when those thoughts bros up in your head.
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I am an 18 year old male and I have been a pretty emotionally dead person for...well since my early childhood. And when I say dead I don't mean depressed or really down or anything of that nature. It's nearly impossible for me to feel anything genuine and I can only put a mask of fakeness on so I don't seem so far out. When I was in a psychology class I read about something called anti-social personality disorder and it almost disturbed me how similar the symptoms were to my own character. I've done enough to put myself away for the better half of my life and I haven't felt a shred of remorse or conscience. Anyways, I'm wondering if my lack of emotion is a cause of concern. Nothing brings me joy, pain, or sorrow and I can't even feel love for my own family anymore. NOTHING will make me feel anything and it bothers me. All I feel like is a body and a brain without a soul. Something is wrong with me but I don't know what. I'm a very intelligent person and all it seems I can do is succeed with material things like work while my relationships are built on false pretenses and emotions I never even felt but acted like I did. My question is: If there is anybody somewhat educated about this...what could be wrong with me? Do I have anti-social personality disorder?...and am I stuck with this? (link)
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Obviously this is a gift of some sort with its many advantages but I do find that the greatest disadvantage though is having to pretend to like some people because you need something from them. My family doesn't understand why I don't go to family funerals its not like I actually care the person died it was their time but anyway such is life right.
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