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how do I get my first kiss?
Posted Wednesday August 17 2011, 5:32 pm
I'm a 13, almost 14 yearold girl, going into the 8th grade and I haven't had my first kiss yet. I have a lot of friends, girls and guys. But I rarely hangout with guys, girls more. One if m best friends has kissed a bunch of guys and she won't be 14 for another 6 months. I feel stupid cause I haven't had my first kiss yet. how can I get it? I want it, but I'm very nervous. What if I'm not good? But the question is, how do i get it? Please helpp! All advice and tips are goood! Thanks. :)
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am i being confused and hopefull or crazy?
Posted Wednesday August 17 2011, 3:17 pm
(i think i lost the first post) maybe he led me on but i liked the feeling because i am super conservative 33 yr old girl and now i fell inlove with him... do guys tell the truth? should i trust him or my gut feeling because i feel that i love him more than i do and i find it unfair.i thik he still sees other girls but he denies it.
so many mixed signals and i have committment and trust issues. how do i know what do i like? or do i just like the feeling of being in love ...? will this relationship go anywhere or am i just hanging on to the feeling? so confused!
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My boyfriend is going to college and I'm a junior in highschool
Posted Wednesday August 17 2011, 3:19 am
So I am a junior in highschool and my boyfriend is starting his first year in college so he's a freshman in college and we've been going out for 10 months and we love eachother and always talk about our future together but anyways his college is in the same city I live in so I'm not to worried about that but I'm scared he might cheat? Or break up with me? What do I do?
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my dad and brother have a ptoblem with my boyfriend
Posted Tuesday August 16 2011, 8:42 pm
My brother and father have a problem with my boyfriend.I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 18, I don't see the problem here.My boyfriend is best friends with my brother, but my brother doesn't like the fact were dating.My dad doesn't think that i'm old enough for him.Me and my boyfriend aren't into anything sexual.What's the problem with us dating?
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Attracting guys
Posted Tuesday August 16 2011, 2:28 pm
Hi I'm going to be a sophomore and I want to attract guys more instead of being just that girl. I'm not saying I want to be a slut I just want a guy to like me to boost my confidence. I'm not the most attractive girl I'm "5foot7" and I weigh about 175 which is a little on the heavy side so guys probally don't like that ecspecially in my school it's all about judging. I just want to get some attention Im allways myself but I don't get it I'm not good at this whole flirting thing I've never had a boyfriend or my first kiss which I want bc I allways feel alone at home noone to text please give me some good tactics
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my boyfriends brother is so rude
Posted Tuesday August 16 2011, 12:35 pm
I've never been on this web site before. Anyway. I am 13 and my boyfriend is 13. His brother is tremendously rood.The first time I met him he says hi sexy do you want to be my girlfriend of course I say no.His brother comes(my boyfriend) I tell him what he said to me.my boyfriend was so mad.One day I go to my boyfriend's house and his brother answers the door and I walk in he just starts grabbing my butt and saying I should go out with him. I don't like my boyfriend's brother at all. How should I tell him to leave me alone.
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Do guys talk about girls as if they were players to other guys?
Posted Tuesday August 16 2011, 12:29 pm
18/f
I have some close guy friends that my ex-boyfriend talks to at times. And my ex-boyfriend told me that he has no interest in girls right now, and all he wants to do is to focus on school and studying. But he recently told on of my close friends that he wishes there was more time in his vacation to "pick up a girl" because all the girls there was "cute and hot." and then told someone else that he would probably find someone to help out another friend if they wanted to learn another language, and my friend said, "i'll pay extra if it's a girl." and my ex-boyfriend said, "if that's the case, I'd keep her to myself. jk jk" -___-"
So I was just wondering, was he jus...
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why would a man be dishonest to his wife ?
Posted Tuesday August 16 2011, 7:01 am
Why do men feel the need to lie about infidelity if she already knows what happened? Does this mean there is much more similar activity that the wife might not know about?
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My ex-boyfriend and the recent guy ♥
Posted Tuesday August 16 2011, 2:32 am
Well, I have been thinking about my ex [ A 1 ] still , but I've mannaged to stay away for a while I don't know if I should text him because if he and I were still together today would've been 2 Months , but we broke up so I guess not . Well I did start liking someone else, actually recently, but he was someone I use to like a while back the recent guy [ A 2 ] . I dont know if it's wrong for someone to move on so fast I haven't really talked to [ A 1 ] in about a month, it's as if we are complete strangers . I do get those days where I just wanna text him but I don't because I know how to stay on the Down Low and he is someone I won't forget just like nothing , yes I do miss [ A 1 ] but [ A 2 ] is like a new start but I do like him he told ...
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Inimite kissing
Posted Tuesday August 16 2011, 2:24 am
I was wondering, how do I turn my boyfriend on through kissing? We have been going out for 8 months and I'm 16.
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How Do I ask my best friend?
Posted Tuesday August 16 2011, 12:39 am
My best friend and I have known each other for years now, I think that she might be dating my boyfriend behind my back, lately he's been acting weird, and not texting or calling me back. My best friend has also been quite busy all of sudden with homework,family,etc. I have heard people tell me that my boyfriend is cheating on me,but i don't want to lose my best friend, and i don't believe in what people say, how do i ask my best friend without hurting her feelings?
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In an open relationship, but still care about my ex-boyfriend. What to do?
Posted Monday August 15 2011, 11:31 pm
18/f
My ex-boyfriend, let's call him "Greg," and I broke up 2 months ago. But it seemed like we were kind of dragging it on even then... We were acting like a couple still, but we still considered ourselves single. I didn't want it to end, but he kept telling me to move on and to find another guy. He told me that he would be upset if I did, but he would be more relieved because he feels terrible for making me so sad. He said that he had no interest in girls at the moment, and that he just wanted to focus on school to become a surgeon.
He went on vacation for a week and a half, and we only spoke once since he his schedule was very hectic. So over the time, I was talking to an old friend of mine, let's ...
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He cheated on me, but I love him and my son calls him daddy... what do I do?
Posted Monday August 15 2011, 11:08 pm
I just found out my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me in the begining I confronted him n he told me it was one time a few months ago he calls me n lies n says he has to go to.his moms n wont be home cause something happen but I just got off the phone with his mom we had a big fight over the phone n he didn't come home the next day he smelled like lavender down there n I found dirty text messages in his phone I love him so much n my son. calls him daddy I don't know what I should do please any advice will help
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my boyfriend of three years just told me he cheated on me 4 or 5 times, and is still seeing her. Do I walk away?
Posted Monday August 15 2011, 6:43 pm
i have been with this same guy for over three years now,and we are good together.we have always had exciting sex life,and he says he loves me much,but the other nite,he told me he had sex wtother girl,4o5times,we started working on us,then he admited he was still seeing her.we r talking again,nd he swears no more lies,thathe is only wt me,but im hurt nd he dont understand y its so hard 4 me 2 believe in him again. can i ever get past this,o just walk away be 4 he hurts me again??
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am i blind or is there something there
Posted Monday August 15 2011, 3:10 pm
19/f
Im in love with a close mate that i have known for 8 years. i have told him how i felt and he has told me the same thing but we can never meet at the moment neither of us have the time and if i make time he is busy and when he is free im busy. he has also told me that he needs to sort his head out but i dunno how to take it or what to do? am i being blind and thats his way of saying i dont want to go there or is there really something worth waiting for?
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Interracial relationships
Posted Monday August 15 2011, 1:55 pm
Hi, im 17 turning 18 and i'm a black female. I've always been interested in dating outside my race because i've always been curious to know what it's like to date a white guy. I live in South Florida and it's not easy to get a white boy's attention (well for me) i know im pretty but what is it? What do i do to catch a white boy's attention if there is a difference. How do most of them feel about black girls anyway?
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my friends have all had sex, but I am 12. Should I have sex?
Posted Monday August 15 2011, 12:23 pm
hey i'm the 12 year old girl with the 16 year old bf. alot my friends have really older boy friends.and they've had sex before. i'm really not sure what i should do? my friends are always talking abuot how they had sex. sometimes they would ask me if i've had sex with my bf and they know i'll say no. should i have sex with my bf?
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Am I old enough?
Posted Monday August 15 2011, 12:22 pm
14/f
Last night a boy that I've liked for 2+ years started texting me. We talked for 2 hours and then he asked me if I wanted to go to the Exhibition (like a fair, with rides and stuff) with him. I really wanted to, but I told him I was going to my cottage and couldn't. I don't think I'm allowed to even go on group dates, let alone one on one. He also asked me to a dance 2 years ago, but I didn't really like him then, and I said no.
The thing is, my family sort of knows about this boy, but not in the best way. I used to tell them stories about him, cause he is a bit crazy and nerdy, but sweet and cute at the same time. I kind of left the sweet and cute part out. I really want to ask my parents if I can go, and ...
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Does my boyfriend care?
Posted Monday August 15 2011, 12:19 pm
Okay, a while ago i was cutting myself over some anxiety problems. No, i wasn't like, trying to kill myself or going for my wrists, it was alot milder than that to try and relieve myself of some distress. I've stopped now because i think it's stupid. Me and my boyfriend got into a really deep conversation and i decided to confide in him and confess what i was doing (dick move i know, am i trying to scare him away?? *sigh*) Anyway, he didn't seem to make a big deal out of it, and when we got into a conversation about it again, he said that he wasn't really checking to see if i was still doing it, and that he wasn't overly freaked out by it and that 'It's just that you have a problem, it's not your fault, it's not anyone's fault'. He is such ...
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I have to end this relationship, don't I?
Posted Monday August 15 2011, 4:37 am
17/F
I asked a few questions a while back about dealing with my overly shy boyfriend. Recap: He's super shy and he's a couple years younger, but he acts even older than I do sometimes. He knows when to be a kid and when to be an adult. Problem is, he doesn't seem to know how to act around me. He turns red and squirms when he has to kiss me or if he's sitting next to me on the couch.
And this is how I tried to solve it. I myself am shy, but I forced myself to overcome it today and invited him to a double date in town. I tried so hard to get him to talk and to order something to eat, but he wouldn't. He just smiled some of the time or laughs quietly as if he was stuck. I tried to urge a conversation about his job and abo...
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