My best friend and I have known each other for years now, I think that she might be dating my boyfriend behind my back, lately he's been acting weird, and not texting or calling me back. My best friend has also been quite busy all of sudden with homework,family,etc. I have heard people tell me that my boyfriend is cheating on me,but i don't want to lose my best friend, and i don't believe in what people say, how do i ask my best friend without hurting her feelings?
You need to directly talk to both of them,. ask what's going on. ask you friend if she is actually busy or is it that she just doesn't want to hang out with you as much.
As for your boyfriend,. confront him about what you have heard. ask why they would say it if it's not true,. make sure you make it clear that your asking not to hurt him and not because you don't trust him but because you want to know the truth. (if he's not he may be hurt if you accuse him of doing the cheating act instead of asking him.)
sml111992 answered Tuesday August 16 2011, 4:00 pm: go to ur boyfriend and bestfriend and talk to them ask why are people telling me your cheating on me? and talk to your friend ask the same question if she seems weird then i guess you know your answer [ sml111992's advice column | Ask sml111992 A Question ]
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