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My boyfriend is going to college and I'm a junior in highschool
So I am a junior in highschool and my boyfriend is starting his first year in college so he's a freshman in college and we've been going out for 10 months and we love eachother and always talk about our future together but anyways his college is in the same city I live in so I'm not to worried about that but I'm scared he might cheat? Or break up with me? What do I do?
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If he loves you, he won't look twice at other women. You have been together a long time, long enough for you to be past what is known as the honeymoon stage but you have the right to worry. My partner is still married and until they sell the house to pay for the divorce, he still lives with his wife but I love him and I trust him 110%. But sometimes even I can't help but think what if she isn't done with him and he has a moment of weakness?
I have talked to him about though and although he knows I trust him he understands why I feel that way, try the same with your boyfriend, get him to understand that you are feeling a little uncertain about how things are going to be. Communication and honesty are what keeps a relationship working and I have a feeling you're not ready to give up just yet.
So find a quiet moment and talk about it with him, however men are usually serious if they talk about houses, marriage and so on if that is what you mean by future.
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I'll be honest.....
College is a whole new world compared to high school, Right now you both are in love and have been together for a while but whether you both want to except it or not you will meet new people it just happens.
You are a junior in high school and still have about another two years left. You haven't even had the chance to taste what it means to be independent and out in the real world and I can tell you life is much different after you graduate. Your boyfriend has already experienced it or is about too anyway. I'm not trying to burst your bubble here but I'm just pointing out the truth...
Right now, He may assure you that everything will be fine and maybe it will be but I wouldn't really get my hopes up. :/
I would try to meet new people and try to find someone who will be where you are in life.
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