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He cheated on me, but I love him and my son calls him daddy... what do I do?
I just found out my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me in the begining I confronted him n he told me it was one time a few months ago he calls me n lies n says he has to go to.his moms n wont be home cause something happen but I just got off the phone with his mom we had a big fight over the phone n he didn't come home the next day he smelled like lavender down there n I found dirty text messages in his phone I love him so much n my son. calls him daddy I don't know what I should do please any advice will help
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If a guy cheats on you then he doesn't deserve you, even though you love him and your son calls him daddy, you shouldn't take the heart-ache. I think you should take the high road, and leave him, because if he cheats on you then he doesn't care about you.
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Listen, He cheated there is no what, ifs, or and about it
You have to come to terms with reality, If a man can't be faithful to you then you shouldn't be with him at all. When you choose a partner when you have a child you are not only looking for someone you can see a future with but you should look for someone that could make a suitable co-parent to your child also. There isn't much more obvious truth that this man has been with someone else. If you love your son then you need to withdraw him from bad influence. Find someone who will be faithful and committed to you and I recommend not letting your child get too attached to the point where they are calling this person "Daddy". It is not fair to a child to have people come and go in their lives, However you are also not entitled to be in a relationship with someone who is a liar. Dump him and move on
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You've first got to accept the fact that right now hes not looking to change. He still talks to this girl, who in mind has no class to even think to be talking to a man who has a girlfriend and has a child that is the situation as well. Im sorry that he did this to you. You need to know you dont deserve this. Your a beautiful woman im sure and you deserve the best. If he doesnt want to be with you he shouldnt drag it out and turn you into some kind investigator to find the truth. The true definition of love comes straight from the bible. You should really read this and see if this even amounts to the love you guys have. 1 corinthians:4 Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, 5 does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, 6 does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never fails; but if there are gifts of prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away. 9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part; 10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will be done away.
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