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how do I get my first kiss?

Question Posted Wednesday August 17 2011, 5:32 pm

I'm a 13, almost 14 yearold girl, going into the 8th grade and I haven't had my first kiss yet. I have a lot of friends, girls and guys. But I rarely hangout with guys, girls more. One if m best friends has kissed a bunch of guys and she won't be 14 for another 6 months. I feel stupid cause I haven't had my first kiss yet. how can I get it? I want it, but I'm very nervous. What if I'm not good? But the question is, how do i get it? Please helpp! All advice and tips are goood! Thanks. :)

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masterclinic answered Thursday August 18 2011, 7:38 pm:
Ok... I know your young and you think your first kiss is going to be really great and something your probably gunna remember forever, and yes thats right, IF! you wait for someone you really really like.
I know i could tell you what you need to know to get your first kiss in the next week but i wont.

Im 19 and i had my first kiss when i was 16; i waited for someone that made me really happy and i really enjoyed spending time with. We waited about a month after our first date and the kiss was amazing; it was more than i thought it would be.
While i was your age kids were kissing someone new every week and it never interested; i waited and ive never for a second regretted it.

So you have a choice to make; you can go to a party or kiss any guy that shows some interest in you, i doubt he will be complaining, probably even ask to do it more. Or your can wait till you find someone that makes you feel happy and special; and share that experience together

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Cheergirl201 answered Thursday August 18 2011, 5:02 pm:
Its ok I'm 14 and i recently got my first kiss last month, by my guy friend who is now my BF. Just because ur firend has kissed so many guys doesnt mean you have to do the same. I have tons of friends that kiss a lot of guys and i felt the same way. Dont worrie it just takes time, make sure you first kiss is special and with someone you really care about. dont go out there and kiss a random guys that you barley know. make sure its special because it is ur first kiss. I know this might seem hard but just wait i know there will be a guy out there that you really like and he might feel the same way about you. so good luck (:

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MummuM answered Wednesday August 17 2011, 11:20 pm:
Just because your friends are doing it, doesn't mean you have to, too. Please, don't feel pressured to kiss some random guy just because your best friend had her first kiss already. Your first kiss should be special, not just something you need to do because someone else did it. Don't feel stupid because you haven't had your first kiss, either. There are MANY of people well into their 20's that still didn't have their first kiss. It'll come when you're ready, and it'll make that kiss that much more special, because you waited for the right guy.

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fuckklove answered Wednesday August 17 2011, 7:36 pm:
well sweetie i got ma first kiss wen i was yur age an i relly didint expext it but it jus happened.. an dont feel stupid alot of girls havent had there first kiss at the age of thirteen. an dont just kiss a boy because yur friends are doin it, because thts not good .an to get yur first kiss jus let it cum to you .. an wen yu find a boy you like an he decides he likes you to then maybe yull get yurs an but tht doesnt mean after yu get it go kissin other boys because tht can get you a name yu dont want and kissing leads to other things so your friend shudunt be doin tht .. .. n its ohk to be nervous sometimes an dont worry about if yur good or not jus close yur eyes pucker up yur lips,, an give him or whoever a soft kiss .. an then wen yur done open yur eyes up an see what his reaction was .. an here is a tip .. make sure yu wear some lipgloss on yur lips so they will be soft n moist ..

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