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my boyfriend of three years just told me he cheated on me 4 or 5 times, and is still seeing her. Do I walk away?
i have been with this same guy for over three years now,and we are good together.we have always had exciting sex life,and he says he loves me much,but the other nite,he told me he had sex wtother girl,4o5times,we started working on us,then he admited he was still seeing her.we r talking again,nd he swears no more lies,thathe is only wt me,but im hurt nd he dont understand y its so hard 4 me 2 believe in him again. can i ever get past this,o just walk away be 4 he hurts me again??
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Okay. Ask yourself this question:
Would I want my dad to treat my mom like this? Would I want my daughter or sister or friend to be treated like this?
The answer should be no. Here is how I see it:
Anybody who cheats on you doesn't love you. He just loves how easy it is to mess around with you.
I say, even without knowing you, that you are way too good a person to be treated like that. How do I know? because you're still concerned with hurting him even after he's hurt you. I say drop him like a hot potato.
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Lets state the obvious here. You love him. He hurt you. Change is hard. Your going to fight your hardest to hold on to him because you love him and he means so much to you. And your going to fight to let go of him because losing him isnt what you wanted...but its what you need. You cant be with him, you have to let go of whats comfortable, of the known. Some great advice is to leave before your left. He cheated on you not once not twice but 4 or 5 times. And GET THIS, he hid it from you all this time and just now is telling you? Whats to say you take him back and he hides it for another 3 years...your relationship will just be one BIG lie. and its going to be 3 times harder to let go of him. Do this for you, walk away. Be strong, surround yourself with people who are going to bright your day and fully love and care about you. Trust is everything....trust me i know! Its only going to be worthwhile if the two people are willing to work on at it nonstop because they love each other and want each other. But honey, look what he has done to you. You can forgive him and then forget him.
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You should walk away.
I mean, you guys were together for 3 years.
I don't know if he's gonna be honest from now on, he might be, but he might not be.
Even if you decided to give him another chance, all you'd be thinking is, "Can I trust him?" You don't want your whole relationship to be like that. It's just going to hurt you more.
Let him go.
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No man should ever cheat on his girl especially if you have been together for 3 years!!!! I always say if a guy cheats on me then he doesn't care about me, dump this guy before he hurts you again, because men say they are going to change but never do. So to avoid the heart-ache DUMP HIM!!!
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Are you serious?
He cheated and he is with someone else, He even openly admitted it too you.
I can promise you that if this guy cheated on you then he is very likely to cheat on his next girlfriend too. You are better off without him, Dump him and move on.
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Yeah, you do walk away.
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