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my dad and brother have a ptoblem with my boyfriend

Question Posted Tuesday August 16 2011, 8:42 pm

My brother and father have a problem with my boyfriend.I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 18, I don't see the problem here.My boyfriend is best friends with my brother, but my brother doesn't like the fact were dating.My dad doesn't think that i'm old enough for him.Me and my boyfriend aren't into anything sexual.What's the problem with us dating?

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MummuM answered Wednesday August 17 2011, 11:16 pm:
Your Father probably doesn't like the fact that his little girl is dating a much older man, someone who is friends with his Son. While your Brother is also in a bad spot, because his little sister is dating his best friend. How would you feel if you were put into that situation? You probably wouldn't feel too great about yourself.

18 year old boy's have no business being with a 13 year old. Both of you are in different points of your life. He's looking for random fun, while I'm sure, you aren't. Sorry, but when an 18 year old is with a 13 year old, it's usually only for one thing and one thing only...I'd just dump this guy and find someone your own age - someone you have something in common with and doesn't want just a one night fling.

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sml111992 answered Wednesday August 17 2011, 11:27 am:
your not into anything sexual yet! thats the problem guys at 18 want more than just a cute romantic relationship. they want freedom and to do what they want when they want. your 13 you dont know half the things he does yet. its a big age difference right now when your older and out of highschool it would be ok to date someone who is 5 years plus older than you. your not ready for things he is now and your dad and brother know that and if your brotheres friends with him then he knows the intentions this kid has with you.

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Xui answered Wednesday August 17 2011, 11:01 am:
Your boyfriend is 18 years old, Legally this would be classified as statutory rape and sweetheart as much as you don't see anything wrong with this one your boyfriend could very well be forced to register as a sex offender if any charges were to be bought against him. It is wrong on all degree

You are only 13, This man is 18 years old and is way to old for you, You are very lucky because if I were your father I would of probably been hitch hiking to his door and you know the rest of it.

You do not need to have a sexual relationship for this man to get in trouble. Also, You honestly don't see anything wrong with a 18 year old man dating someone your age? He is 5 years older than you and is legally an adult. You are a minor and under the state law you are and will legally be a child until you reach age 18.

I highly suggest you end the relationship and find someone who is your age, This is just sick on his part.

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mary200022 answered Wednesday August 17 2011, 9:22 am:
well firstly you r 13 and he is 18!!!!!!!!!! that is to much of a age gap between u.
i know most couples have a age difference but they are mature adults.
5 years between you 2 is 2 much and if i was your brother i wouldnt be happy with you 2 dating either because i would fell uncomfortable about it and think you r taking my best friend away from me to your advantage.
i personly dont think you 2 should date.
plz dont just delete my answer because you dont like is just an opinion.

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