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My ex-boyfriend and the recent guy ♥
Well, I have been thinking about my ex [ A 1 ] still , but I've mannaged to stay away for a while I don't know if I should text him because if he and I were still together today would've been 2 Months , but we broke up so I guess not . Well I did start liking someone else, actually recently, but he was someone I use to like a while back the recent guy [ A 2 ] . I dont know if it's wrong for someone to move on so fast I haven't really talked to [ A 1 ] in about a month, it's as if we are complete strangers . I do get those days where I just wanna text him but I don't because I know how to stay on the Down Low and he is someone I won't forget just like nothing , yes I do miss [ A 1 ] but [ A 2 ] is like a new start but I do like him he told me he feels the same , but he is an 8th grader I do not care if he is younger it's just that that people will talk and we wont be able to see eachother and that's what I think is really holding me back , yes I do think he is cutee and everything but [ A 1 ] is still in the picture . I would go for it with [ A 2 ] but I gues I am scared to let go of [A 1.]. But good thing is that [ a 1 ] isnt going to the same High School as me and I can forget about him faster then I've ever forgotten about anyone because time is the best medicen yet . Well, well my question[s] are basicly ,
Is it wrong for someone to move on so fast . ?
Is it right to like some one else while still having so many feelings for someone else . ?
Should I just start getting closer with [A 2] even if he is an 8 th grader . ?
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You cannot truly move on if you are still hung up on someone else. Imagine if you were dating someone and they still constantly thought about their ex all the time. How would it make you feel? Would you feel led on? Yes.
The question is: Why is your ex an ex? What happened between the both of you? This is usually the key question to whether you would have a successful shot at making it work again.
Honestly? I think you really should stay away from dating other people until you are over it. Stop using this new guy as a fall back, It's not cool to play with peoples feelings.
Also, Keep in mind you stated that your ex will not be attending the same school as you, This means that he will move on and meet new people and so will you. The new guy, Assuming because he will be in 8th grade will also be in another school. This will make it very hard to keep your relationship balanced as like I said before you will all meet different people. I think your best bet is to wait until school starts and try to meet new people, You may find someone who is right for you but neither A or B sound like the right dude.
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Firstly, no. It is not wrong for someone to move as fast as you are willing to. Let's face the facts, you are still young, your last relationship lasted for less than 2 months, therefore is not a big deal if you move on now. It is probably healthier for you too. You broke up with A1 for, it was obviously for an important reason, whatever it may be. So just move on, A2 likes you too. You could start getting closer to A2 as a friend, and then see how it goes. Don't jump into anything too fast though, starting off as friends is a good way to understand what you could be possibly getting into, relationship wise. Take it slow, and see how it feels. The issue with people judging, unfortunately, there will always people in the world judging you, me, everyone.
If it feels right, go for it!
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