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am i blind or is there something there


Question Posted Monday August 15 2011, 3:10 pm

19/f

Im in love with a close mate that i have known for 8 years. i have told him how i felt and he has told me the same thing but we can never meet at the moment neither of us have the time and if i make time he is busy and when he is free im busy. he has also told me that he needs to sort his head out but i dunno how to take it or what to do? am i being blind and thats his way of saying i dont want to go there or is there really something worth waiting for?


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annabanana answered Wednesday August 17 2011, 10:35 pm:
maybe you two should be better off as good mates. Dont worry- sometimes the good friend is much more treasured than a girlfriend that he can easily dump... i think he is just not ready yet for a relationship as you are, but as a good friend he doesnt want to hurt your feelings.
Take it easy and he might come to his senses soon but in the meantime, appreciate the friendship and enjoy your life, try to cheer up!

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Xui answered Monday August 15 2011, 10:56 pm:
If you both are busy to the point where you can make time to see one another then you both are too busy to even be thinking about being in a relationship right now. If he has a lot going on, Then maybe it's a hint you should move on and stop waiting around. It's not healthy to put yourself on hold and not allow yourself to meet other people and right now this guy just isn't available.

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