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Does my boyfriend care?
Okay, a while ago i was cutting myself over some anxiety problems. No, i wasn't like, trying to kill myself or going for my wrists, it was alot milder than that to try and relieve myself of some distress. I've stopped now because i think it's stupid. Me and my boyfriend got into a really deep conversation and i decided to confide in him and confess what i was doing (dick move i know, am i trying to scare him away?? *sigh*) Anyway, he didn't seem to make a big deal out of it, and when we got into a conversation about it again, he said that he wasn't really checking to see if i was still doing it, and that he wasn't overly freaked out by it and that 'It's just that you have a problem, it's not your fault, it's not anyone's fault'. He is such a wonderful human being and i know that he cares about me and loves me. But because i'm a phsyco bitch, it makes me feel like he didn't really care about it. If someone had told me about it i would at least have discreetly sneaked a peek at their arm to see if there were any new marks. I love him and i just want to be happy with him, but does this mean he isn't really bothered by it? :( I realise i sound slightly attention seeking, but that's not why i told him, i just wanted his support.
Cheers x
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You boyfriend does care about you. The fact that he is not giving much attention to it is probably because he is trying to show you indirectly that it's a personal issue, it is for you to heal over by yourself, on your own. He doesn't want to make you feel odd or a victim, he's trying to be cool about it and be accepting. That is love.
Keep talking to him, he sounds like a good person to have.
I hope you have overcome the cutting emotionally. :)
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I think your boyfriend does care about you. He might not know how to show it or doesn't show it the way you want him to.
Talk to him about it again and just ask if he cares. Don't yell at him or freak out or something. Just stay calm and just ask him honestly.
I think you were just looking for a different reaction than what he gave you, but don't over analyze it.
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