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changes


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 3:42 pm

right so i am from a pretty conservative country... but i am quite exposed to western and eastern thought and ideology so i understand both ways and my country's own.... somehow it has fused into something new and something that makes -at least to me- alot more sense than both viewed separately (...united we stand...?) anyway....i feel like i am too conservative to one side (owing to how i am forced to "conduct [my]self") and too liberal on the other... my parents are really super traditional, and my sister is worse, i've tried to let her see who i really am but she refused and made it known that i may be a "bad seed" if thats what you call it.
they do not accept me for me. i've learned to be two people (me and...

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honors and AP?


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 3:27 pm

okay, i took my first ap class this year (european history) and i couldn't really perform well on the test and finally decided ap wasn't for me. the thing is, my friends (group) have always been in the same class as me and for next year, i chose only one ap class while most of them chose four or five (even though some cant even handle it..they just want to be able to show off about it). i chose my classes to my strength and ability..im in all honors. but now i feel like im gonna be disconnected from everyone else..because they have harder classes. i feel like they're going to be smarter than me..and they're going to grow away from me...and organize their group so i'm not in it. i WILL have some friends who wont be taking aps either, don't g...

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finding my own personality


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 2:57 pm

my name is Rachel and iam 19 years old and my personality has been changing alot ever since i turned 16 and i don't know why i'll tell you what my personality use to be and what it is now to give you the idea of what iam talking about ok to start off with before i turned 16 i was a goody two shoes and when i turned 16 i started doing things that i wouldn't normally do like here's a few suggestions when i turned 16 i was dating this guy who was 20 years old and i snuck over to his house and i use to wouldn't even look at a guy in that way and then i started cussing when i turned 16 and then at 16 whenever i got mad at mom i ran away and went to my aunt's house whenever i got mad at my mom and then when i turned 17 i tried my first ciggerate ...

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how can i tell if i was sexually abused as a child?


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 2:41 pm

im 14 years old, and for some time i thought i might be sexually abused as a child, but i cant remember. i was adopted at 7 an before then i wood visit my biological family, an they wer into things children shouldnt be around. but anyway, recently i found a book on telling if you wer sexually abused as a child, i have more than half the symptoms, and i have these flashbacks of a white man, who had white hair and white facial hair. growing up ive been terrified of santa clause, the dark and open closets at night. i never added it all up til i read that book. i cant remember exactly though, so what should i do? leave it alone or tell someone? but i dont think anyone wold believe me anyway. im really not sure if im ready to face the truth if i...

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racism


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 2:25 pm

Im taking an in class final which is an essay. Our teacher told us it is about racism (8th grade btw) and i need some tips on what to use.
Please, i need help!
1-i need 3 groups who have experienced racism, what time period, and why
2-i need about 5 movies on racism.

THANK YOU SO MUCH!

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love triangle


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 1:59 pm

it's a long story, but i'll try to make it sure. 2 guys and me. i totally hate this sibling issue. let's name one guy Eeyore and the other one Tigger. lol, okay... so me and tigger likes eachother, and we can't really be together because of Eeyore. And the thing is Tigger has an older sibling that's friend's with my sibling. and my sibling, which is a sister.. might find it "awkward" when the other sibling doesn't mind. And the thing is, Eeyore also likes me. And Eeyore told his older sister, who is best friend's with my sister, that i like him back. And Eeyore's sister told me she'd rather have me be with him because I'm a great girl. And that gets me really nervous cause i don't want her to think that i'm a bad person if i'm goi...

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bump in uper mouth


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 1:51 pm

i don't know how to explain this, but i can't remember what happened. all i can say is that the top of my top behind my teeth or whatever... there's like a little bump i should say, it feels swollen/biten i don't know something like that. and everytime i eat or drink something and it touches it, it hurts. when i brush my teeth and my upper mouth it hurts cause i brushed over it. is there any way i could heel it or something?

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father's day!


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 1:45 pm

what should i get my dad for father's day? i am tiered of getting him something materialistic like a book or a phone or whatever... i got my mum a gift certificate to a spa for mother's day so what could i get him?

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my boyfriend treats me like dirt


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 1:41 pm

My boyfriend is constantly putting me down, saying that I am fat, and stupid, and he calls me names all the time like b*tch and c*nt. This makes me cry all of the time. And when he sees me crying, he calls me a baby and says I need to grow up. He says he cares about me, but caring means that you help me feel better when I am upset, instead of yelling at me like he does. I can't leave him because we have a 1 yr old son together and plus, if I did leave, I have no where to go, and I can't afford anything. I want to kill myself, but I won't because of my son. Does anyone have any advice for me?

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what style is it


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 1:29 pm

okay the whole colored skinny jeans with the rocker shirts and the converse...I want to dress like that next year but IDK what it is called...
like example
dark blue skinny jeans
black converse
stud colored belt
with a white or black band shirts..

can you tell me what kind of style is this so i can know where to shop

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puberty


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 1:20 pm

I have 2 questions in 1. how do you know when a male has hit puberty? and, what age does a male hit puberty?

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bathing suit


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 12:56 pm

alright it's almost summer...ive been trying to lose weight and ive been doing REALLY well. okay so i still have my 34 c's, and all these bikinis i have, most of them look bad on my boobs. they make them look like they kind of go to side, and i still have more weight to lose. my friend had big boobs but hers always look so perfect and up there in bathing suits and mine looks kind of saggy. so what do i do? what kind of bathing suits will make me look okay? i want my boobs to look good, like they dont sag at all.
i also think i have like kind of big hip bones..i dont want to be skinny and insanely curvy like my other friend..her stomach is unattractive. i want like the victorias secret model stomach/waist..long and only a little bit curved. helpp

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Keep bleeding a LITTLE


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 12:53 pm

I have been having sex for about 3 times now, not as in 3 rounds but as in 3 sequences.
Like, I wil have sex once and it will bleed VERY little and then, the second, third and the rest of the time would be fine. But why do I still bleed when I have lost my virginity 3 times AGO!?!
Please help me understand...
thanks in advance! :)

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arms and back


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 12:30 pm

So my gym teacher told me that doing some backward weight lifting would help me tone my arms. I've been doing them for a long time, although I have skipped some days, and I see no improvement. I don't want to tone my arms, I want to loose fat in my chest, back, and upper arms area. I don't know what exercises to do or what to eat, but I want to loose weight fast since summers here. I feel awfully self conscious about these. Does any one have any inputs? Thnx in advance.

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constantly needs attention


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 12:01 pm

I have a friend who constantly needs attention. It was my friends birthday, but she made everyone pay attention to her. She thinks she's above everyone, and is 'different' just to be 'different', rather than being herself completely. I know thats a complicated concept. Anyway, the other day she was being mad annoying and i told her to be quiet and she blew up on me. She just recently told me how boring I am, so I think its my turn to tell her how attention-seeking she can be. Any suggestion?

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i made a bet..


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 11:43 am

16/f
ok so my friend is leaving for camp on sunday and she told her other friend from camp that she wouldn't go back to camp without having made out. so there's this kid who told her he would hook up with her... lets call him A. but she was too scared to do it. so i told her i would hook up with a different guy.. lets call him B if she hooked up with A. and she said fine. well the thing is.. i actually really like B and he likes me too. but we're like best friends and i feel like it would be really awkward. i don't know if it will like ruin our friendship or not. i know it probably will once we stop liking each other but what about now? i just don't know if i should go through with it or not.. even though i really want to. this would...

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trash talking teachers website


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 11:42 am

does anyone know the name of the website that lets you say what school your in and then you go to your school's page and you can write comments about all the teachers and usually its really bad stuff. i forgot the name but i really want to go on it. i remember it had a black background hah thats all i remember.

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this guy is gonna ask me out..


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 11:40 am

16/f
okay so.. in our youth group there's like 4 guys (it's a small youth group). but anyways, i've hooked up with one of the guys lets call him A. A liked me a lot i'm pretty sure and i kinda liked him back. then there's B. my best friend hooked up with B. they really liked each other and he wanted to ask her out but she didn't wanna go out with him. but anyways.. now B likes me. and he's gonna ask me out and he like got me this really pretty necklace and stuff (my friends told me this). my best friend says she doesn't care if i go out with him.. but he was her first hook up and i would feel bad. and also i don't really want to go out with him. but here's the question.. would it be wrong if i just hooked up with him? because he's a ...

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Does he Like Me?


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 11:35 am

Okay, So there is this Guy who I totally like. And I want to know if he likes me back. Here is how he acts.

1. Im the first girl on his top, And Pretty far up, on myspace.
2. Whenever he is online, He i/ms Me
3. He insults me alot Then Smiles
4. He always looks me in the eyes
5. In gym one day, I was sitting down and he sat really close to me and we spent the whole period talking.
6. He playfully punches me. Or slaps in me in the stomach or something.
7. Once In enlgish, My friend put her backpack in the seat next to mine, and he moved it and Put his stuff there and sat.
8. Another time in English, He was sitting in the back and I sat in the front and he moved his Stuff and Sat...

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Arts and Craft Present


Posted Saturday June 14 2008, 9:04 am

okay for about a few years now, me and my friend make eachother stuff for holidays and birthdays.so far we've both done collages in frames,bulletin boards, and scrap books. so basically her birthday is coming up and im so out of ideas on what i should do. any ideas!?

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