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don't know which one to pick


Posted Friday September 16 2011, 7:34 pm

My name is Marian and I like two guys at school they are both funny and smart but I dont know one of them is older and i dont get to see him as much but we still talk. The other one is in the same grade as me and he always wants to sit next to me, i like the attention but i dont know what to do.

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i have a boyfriend but girls drive me wild


Posted Friday September 16 2011, 7:34 pm

I have a boyfriend but he doesn't interest me.I akways fantasize about woman and only girl on girl pornography turns me on!sexy girls excite me!I look at girls more then guys and have been like this for many years!I have done stuff with females and loved it!am I a lesbian?I am a 22year old girl!help

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One Year Anniversary gift?


Posted Friday September 16 2011, 7:27 pm

19/F
(not sexually active; just to dismiss that)
So, my boyfriend & I are having our one-year anniversary next week :) The thing is, I'm broke :|
So, I guess I'm going DIY for this one. But I have NO clue what to do for him... I guess a hand-made card is a given, but I've made him 4 unique ones already for christmas, valentine's day, our six months, and his birthday. i've run out of creative ideas! so i guess first of all, does anyone have any ideas on like some kind of creative template for a card? I'll put my own spin on it, of course. But between a pop-up, a heart-shaped, a giant card, a collage, I can't think of any other cheesy cute creative thing I can do with a card. Maybe something with 365 incorporated into...

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french kissing?


Posted Friday September 16 2011, 5:14 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for about three weeks but we have been friends for about seven months. He and I are very comfortable around each other, with a strong trust and a great chemistry! He and I go pretty well together :) he's very passionate about kissing and cuddling and hugging but he is such a gentleman and doesn't push me at all. He suggested we try french kissing and he'll drop little hints and such and although I have never really enjoyed french kissing, since the last two guys I tried it with weren't very...patient. But this is different. We've taken the time to get to know each other and I am very comfortable and ready to try something new. Any tips or techniques you suggest? I'm a little nervous... Thanks!

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He says he doesn't have feelings for me?


Posted Friday September 16 2011, 1:27 pm

Last year I met a guy at college. He was really cool and we got along great as friends. He had a very serious long term girlfriend, who also went to our school and who I had met through him a few times. I liked her and them and I thought we were just friends. Then when we went home for the summer we started talking more and he admitted that he had feelings for me and wanted to break up with his girlfriend because of it, and because he thought they'd been over for a long time. He ended it.
We started talking and after a month I went to visit him and all we did was kiss. It got really serious after that really quickly. We saw each other about three more times over the summer, talked nonstop, and 3 weeks before coming back to school we ...

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Im sick of being single, but i feel like im too available.


Posted Friday September 16 2011, 6:34 am

So im talking to a few different guys, and none of them know each other at all. One of them is divorced and has kids but is only 25, just turned actually less than a month ago, I even asked him to come over and I gave him birthday sex. He usually comes over when me and him can which is REALLY LATE AT NIGHT. I dont mind that but when he comes we talk for hours and we really click, he can tell me anything & i feel the same with him, until he starts staring into my eyes with his beautiful big green eyes and starts kissing me and every once in a while it leads to sex, sometimes oral, not always tho. He told me before that since he is recently divorced he's not looking for a relationship but i am dieing to call him my own. I KNOW im ready bu...

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Is it wrong to keep my options open?


Posted Friday September 16 2011, 5:52 am

So I was on this website where you kinda find dates. Yes I am of the age. But they usually ask if I'm talking to anyone else. Which I always deny. I am currently "talking" to around 5 guys. Is it wrong to keep my options open or should I just choose one and ditch the others. The problem with that is that I'm not sure exactly who I want to stick with and if it'll be worth it. Because what if i change my mind and then it will be too late to take things back. :/ help..

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how can i "tease" my bf


Posted Friday September 16 2011, 5:49 am

So when it comes to my boyfriend and I's sex life I'd say it was amazing. I like to keep things new and fresh coming up with different ways to turn him on BEFORE even getting to the sex. The one that always works is when I trace my tounge on his lips and exhale, even he tells me "Babe I love when you tease me like that", but I feel like it's getting old and I wan't to try something new. ONLY TO TEASE THO! I don't think I need any help in the "sex" area.

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Am I overthinking this?


Posted Friday September 16 2011, 12:22 am

It takes a lot for me to ask for help and I'm not really sure who to talk to about this so I figured I'd see who has the best answer for me. Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we got engaged new years eve. We have a great relationship, I'm very comfortable with him and we have a lot of things in common. However, we do have our issues, like every couple out there.

This is something that has bothered me for quite some time now. He had a female friend who he had a one night stand with after they had both gotten out of a long term relationship. This was before he even met me. He explained this to me before we dated and said it was a mistake. This friend of his happened to be the girl my ex boyfriend cheated on me with. So...

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Why is my boyfriend doing this ?


Posted Thursday September 15 2011, 11:31 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and he loves to rub my belly and kiss it even talks to it ! I gain a little bit of weight but I'm not pregnant. Right before we'd go to sleep he'd rub it and says " I love you " and he kisses it. Is this weird ? Why does he do that ? Were both 18.

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well me and my best guy friend(the crush) were friends until the sixth grd


Posted Thursday September 15 2011, 11:06 pm

HELP!!! me and my best guy friend aka my crush were really good friends till 6th grade then every1 said he hated me because i was mean, im bipolar which means i can be nice at one time and mean at the other. So my friend i told to ask him a nd she said " WHY SHOUld i ask 4 u." i didnt kno she like know she liked him. now were in 7th grd and i cant seem to get over him i liked him 4 3 years now, and i want to get over him but whenever i see him in the hall i blush my heart beats fast and everything, i really like him but want 2 get over him wat can i do get over him or let my heart take over
america english

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How can I calm a friend down ?


Posted Thursday September 15 2011, 10:38 pm

She's crying because she had a nightmare last night that her husband didn't love her anymore. She's been married to him for 10 years and they love each other very much. But she's scared to talk to him. I hate seeing her so sad. She's 9 months pregnant too. Due to have their first baby next week. What can I do to make her feel better ?

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why do that if you know?


Posted Thursday September 15 2011, 8:27 pm

Why do people have sex when there pregnant with no condom or anything when they know they can get more baby's in there and they don't even want this one?
Why do that?!

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Could I get a celebrity to comfort me ?


Posted Thursday September 15 2011, 5:08 pm

I'm going to see my favorite country singer in a few months about 4 days before my birthday. I'm gonna cry if I meet him because he's my idol. Would he be able to comfort me if I cry ?

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PLEASE READ...complicated love triangle


Posted Thursday September 15 2011, 4:37 pm

so there are these two guys i've been friends with for a few yrs now, and there my best guy friends. for both relationships it started out as a friendship and still is...but latley i've been noticing that whenever another girl talks to them i get jealous and mad, and get realy excited when they wanna sit with me. the problem is...their both ex-bfs of 2 popular girls. one of them im friends with and sit at lunch with, the other i used to be friends with, but she doesnt sit with us. as it is, those two girls are very good friends (not bffs but goof friends) i know the one i used to be friends with would act like she doesnt care but would make a big deal about it by crying, they broke up last winter, their still friends, but i dont think he ha...

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Suddenly feeling insecure.


Posted Thursday September 15 2011, 4:24 pm

Last night when I was looking at my boyfriend's laptop history for an important link I visited on his laptop, I came across a bunch of porn links.
It somehow threw me off and I felt so insecure.

We've been together for two years now, he's 21, I'm 18. I mean, I know it's normal for guys to watch porn every now and then, and I guessed my boyfriend did so too, maybe once a month.

But after discovering this (by the way, I never snoop on his laptop- we are very open with one another) I told him that it made me feel bad and insecure about myself and I asked him how often he watches it. He told me that every three or four days when he's feeling horny.

This is just bothering me so much and he said...

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Inter racial dating


Posted Thursday September 15 2011, 7:30 am

This is for a school project I'm doing and would appreciate totally honest answers. I just need to know peoples own opinions on dating outside your own race could you please tell me gender, age and your own race plus how you feel when you see different coloured men and women together.

Also if you do support or agree with inter racial relationships, which is your favourite combinations like white women with black men or asian women with white men, don't be shy :) I just need some honest opinions to finish off my research. thank you

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We have been apart for 3 months, and she is still all I think about. How do I heal?


Posted Thursday September 15 2011, 3:39 am

How do I get over the one that I love even though I was the one who broke it off. We were together for 4 1/2 yrs. I was tired of the binge drinking and the kids running the house. I never had a say in discipline or ne thing. They are not my kids but we were a family. I still love her and she is with someone. She says she still loves me but wants to give her current relationship a try. We have been broke up for 3 months andshe is all I think about. HELP. I want to heal.


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will i ever have a baby?


Posted Wednesday September 14 2011, 9:10 pm

Hi.. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, we have our own place and we really want a baby but there is just no joy for us at all! Its getting me down, everytime we 'do it' he 'does it' up me and there's still no hope! I really don't want to see my doctor just yet, I'd just like advice if anybody else has been in this situation and have taken anything to boost there chances, everybody is getting pregnant around me and it feels like I'm the only one who's not!! :(

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Having doubts with my first real boyfriend..


Posted Wednesday September 14 2011, 9:05 pm

21 female. Ben -18

I've known Ben for about 8 years, but we haven't always been close. We recently started dating. He's not the type of guy I usually go for. I usually go for the college hockey boys -the ones all the girls want. But after the past 3, things clearly haven't been working out with those type of boys.

Now that I'm with Ben he treats me so unbelievably good. He would honestly do anything for me. I'm so comfortable with him, I've never been as comfortable with anyone else. My family likes him. I couldn't ask for a better boyfriend. But, I still keep thinking about wanting someone better. Yes, I'm crazy!! How could I find anyone better than Ben? I'm still wanting those hockey boys. I'm attracted to th...

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