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Is it wrong to keep my options open?
So I was on this website where you kinda find dates. Yes I am of the age. But they usually ask if I'm talking to anyone else. Which I always deny. I am currently "talking" to around 5 guys. Is it wrong to keep my options open or should I just choose one and ditch the others. The problem with that is that I'm not sure exactly who I want to stick with and if it'll be worth it. Because what if i change my mind and then it will be too late to take things back. :/ help..
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Its great that you are open, you dont know who these people really are yet and so to make a decision and just choose one could end up in a bad relationship. When you are ready and have found the person you want to try and get serious with, than you can stop getting to know other men, but if you arent serious with anyone than it is your perogative to go ahead and get to know many people. If a guy can't accept that than maybe he needs to step his game up and prove he is better than the others or leave if her cant handle it. If guys you are speaking to are not keen on the idea of you talking to others than they are probably over protective and jealous and that would be the first sign that they may not be right for you. Dont go into detail about talking to other men but you dont need to hide it either. Good Luck finding Mr.Right
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No, it's NOT wrong for you to keep your options open! Next time someone asks you if you're talking to other guys, be honest! Say "Yeah, I'm just keeping my options open... see what's out there." If a potential boyfriend can't accept that, move on to the next one :)
Good luck :)
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