Question Posted Thursday September 15 2011, 11:31 pm
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and he loves to rub my belly and kiss it even talks to it ! I gain a little bit of weight but I'm not pregnant. Right before we'd go to sleep he'd rub it and says " I love you " and he kisses it. Is this weird ? Why does he do that ? Were both 18.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? hitler_the_goat answered Friday September 16 2011, 2:04 pm: it's kind of strange, but every single one of us is strange in our own way. I do the belly rub thing too, mostly because when I did it while my ex was sleeping, she'd have a kicking fit in her sleep and thats just plain hilarious. its like blowing in a dog's ear, the reaction is so damn funny to watch you can't help but do it over and over. Though the "I love you" thing could be a little creepier than the norm.... but it depends how he's directing it- is it to you, via your belly, or is it to your belly in particular. or perhaps he's saying it to your eggs. in which case, he might be up to something.
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adviceman49 answered Friday September 16 2011, 10:15 am: I don't think it's weird. Everybody has their little fetishes. Your boyfriend has a belly fetish. I'm a leg man myself but when my wife and I were dating I thought she had the cutest little nose I ever saw, still do for that matter. I loved to kiss it until she finally told me she had a bad problem when she was a child with one of her Aunt's who hold her nose, so I had to stop.
I do not see a problem here. If it really annoys you then say something to him. If you can live with it then do just that. He could have foot fetish and crawl under the covers to kiss your feet. Now that could be a problem, though that too is a benign fetish. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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