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Im sick of being single, but i feel like im too available.
So im talking to a few different guys, and none of them know each other at all. One of them is divorced and has kids but is only 25, just turned actually less than a month ago, I even asked him to come over and I gave him birthday sex. He usually comes over when me and him can which is REALLY LATE AT NIGHT. I dont mind that but when he comes we talk for hours and we really click, he can tell me anything & i feel the same with him, until he starts staring into my eyes with his beautiful big green eyes and starts kissing me and every once in a while it leads to sex, sometimes oral, not always tho. He told me before that since he is recently divorced he's not looking for a relationship but i am dieing to call him my own. I KNOW im ready but it seems like he will never be because of the scars left by his ex. What do I do?? And the only reason I talk to the other guys is to keep my options open but he is the one I want to be with.
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I'm going to be honest with you like I would be honest with my friends.
He's using you as a 'booty call'. He's coming over "really late at night" "says all these things to you, that you want to hear", he likes you but doesn't want a relationship right now, and giving you more excuses.
Point blank and I know you don't want to hear it but move on. He's playing with you and he sounds like he has baggage. A guy will say anythign to get his way and it sounds like he's dragging you along. Don't get caught up in that!
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If you want to be with him, stop sleeping with him. Ever hear the expression "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" It sounds offensive, but its true. If you give the prize away at the beginning of the race, why run the race at all?
Take some time to be by yourself. Don't date. Hang with friends and family, fill your time with hobbies. Spend some time thinking about why it is you are so afraid to be alone that you are willing to let a man use you for sex, just in the hopes it will turn into something else. You may be missing the man of your dreams because you are wasting your energy on a man that clearly doesn't care enough about you to make you his girlfriend.
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