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How can I calm a friend down ?
She's crying because she had a nightmare last night that her husband didn't love her anymore. She's been married to him for 10 years and they love each other very much. But she's scared to talk to him. I hate seeing her so sad. She's 9 months pregnant too. Due to have their first baby next week. What can I do to make her feel better ?
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Start by explaining that at 9 months she is probably quite hormonal and that really will play havoc with her emotions, also with it being their first child she is probably very scared and one of the greatest fears I'd have personally is if my husband/boyfriend left me to raise a child alone, so that's probably where the bad dream and emotions are coming from. Tell her that you can tell her husband is madly in love with her and is over joyed to be having a family with her and let her know you'll be there for her as well :) If that fails tell her you'll help her talk to her husband about it and then he can tell her himself that he would never leave her :)
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Well since she is pregnant Im going to say her hormone levels are probably through the roof and what she is feeling is probably alot of worry/stress and she may be self-conscience. I'm not sure how long you have known her but try and remind her of the good times and the times her husband has proved to her his love, if she isnt ready to speak to him about it thats fine but she should be open with him sooner rather than later because he really is the only one that can tell her that he does love her and wants to have a reat future with her. Remind her that it was just a dreama and remind her that her baby needs her to be relaxed and happy and brought into a happy enviroment. Tell her that she needs to remember they are married and having a baby which will probably be the happiest time of her life. Congratulations to her by the way :)
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