I have a boyfriend but he doesn't interest me.I akways fantasize about woman and only girl on girl pornography turns me on!sexy girls excite me!I look at girls more then guys and have been like this for many years!I have done stuff with females and loved it!am I a lesbian?I am a 22year old girl!help
The scale is not only gay, bi, straight though. You can like both but have a significant preference for one sex or the other. There are plenty of bi people who prefer the same or the opposite sex, or who can have sex with either but only really connect emotionally to one. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Saturday September 17 2011, 10:08 am: If you find both guys and girls too be attractive then that would make you bisexual. Going on what you've wrote most likely you are lesbian and there is nothing wrong with that.
At 22 years of age you should have a good handle on your sexuality. Their is nothing wrong with being a Lesbian or bisexual. I really believe the question you are asking is; "is it okay for me to be a lesbian?" The answer to that question is yes.
You need to be comfortable with who you are and that includes your sexuality. Your sexuality is part of you, it is not something you chose to be. If you are more comfortable with being a lesbian or bisexual than that is who you are and what you were designed to be. It is not a choice you made.
Xui answered Friday September 16 2011, 7:57 pm: I would generally say it's probably a stage but seeing you are 22 years old I'm sure you may be passed that. If you find girls more attractive, Then yes you are probably a lesbian. If you find both guys and girls too be attractive then that would make you bisexual but by going on what you've wrote likely you are lesbian and there is nothing wrong with that. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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