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i dont feel appericated in my relationship


Posted Monday January 30 2012, 10:22 pm

i dont feel appericated in my relationship....

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Shy guy likes me?


Posted Monday January 30 2012, 9:30 pm

I don't even know the signs of a shy guy liking you, but my friends keep telling me this guy does. I'll tell you the story,

My friends and i went out to eat at a restaurant and my friends were telling me our server was looking at me and paying close attention to me. Like he was staring at me far away I'm guessing. When ever i was done with my drink he was there in a snap. My friends were giggling and i was just saying he was doing his job. Then i realized he wasn't even paying mind to my friends. Only me. SO my friends told me to ask him if they're hiring. I needed a job so why not. I asked and he quickly said; "Yeah let me get a application for you." I didn't really ask for one :P So he gave me one and he told me h...

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i don't get my boyfriend about what he's saying?


Posted Monday January 30 2012, 4:59 pm

hi, whenever we have an arguement my boyfriend of 13 months says,''he's depressed'' afterwards. what does he mean? we live together and he's in his late 40's and i'm in my mid 30's. we both don't say sorry but afterwards we make up by cuddling and kissing. i feel sad and depressed after the arguement but i never show to him however he goes and say he's depressed. does this mean he really feels bad after the arguement or he just can't say sorry? he also says we should split up whenever we have an arguement. sometimes, if i really irritate him too much he goes and says, ''you know where the door is'' and after a while we start talking to each other and he says,'' he's depressed and sad.'' so guys, what does he actually mean? does he want us ...

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i have 2 boyfriends


Posted Monday January 30 2012, 2:44 pm

i have 2 boyfriends though i love 1 from past 4 yrs now n the other i now him from 4 months but both are really serious for me n i'm serious just for 1 how do i tell this out people think girls who double date are slut means it's not good people calling me a slut the reason for me saying yes to d second 1 was because i had a fight with the 1st 1 n now i love both of them but i love 1st 1 more i care fr the second guys feelings i told him once that i never wanna talk to him but he cried n begged me not to do so n here i'm stuck don't want 1 to cry n i want to b happy with d other i love both what can i do please help

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Who's the bad ones guys or girls?


Posted Monday January 30 2012, 9:15 am

Hi I'm a 19 year old male. I just got hurt/used by this girl and have been hurt in the past numerous times so my opinion here might be kinda biased so looking for some other opinions. I feel like everytime I log onto Facebook or hear girls talk there something about guys being jerks and hurting them and there being no good guys left out there. Well I recently thought of it this way I'm sick of being hurt by girls and I'm sure other guys are too so maybe that's why there's no good guys out there? Because girls use and hurt and take advantage of the good guys that want to take care of you like me and then complain that we are jerks and asses and that's all you have to go to. Maybe if a girl didn't say she liked you and wanted to date and slee...

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How do I get my man to take charge in the bedroom?


Posted Sunday January 29 2012, 9:34 pm

I need advice on how to get my man to take control in the bedroom when we have sex its because I'm the one telling him to get upstairs and get his clothes of but I would really like it if he could make the first move and suprise me I'm the one who talks dirty and puts outfits on for him just once I would love it if he could just do that one thing for me

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Is it considered cheating or wrong to do?


Posted Sunday January 29 2012, 6:23 pm

If your gf is away at college and has guys of one her friends sleeping in her room with her and her roommate and she cuddles with him would you look at it as cheating or something to be mad/hurt about? Or if they slept in the same bed? Guys and girls opinions are good

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He wants space


Posted Sunday January 29 2012, 1:46 pm

Just before Christmas I met a guy at a party and we hit it off. Over the Christmas period we were both at home from university and for weeks we talked all the time. He made it clear that he liked me and when we got back to university we started dating. At first, I was very hesitant to get into anything serious and he was the one pushing for a relationship. Now it seems that the roles have reversed because he is suddenly telling me he thinks we need 'space'. This has come after spending nearly every day together for the past three weeks. To all intents and purposes, we are a couple and we have both agreed not to see other people.

I'm hurt that he is suddenly putting the brakes on. We've both made it clear we want a relationsh...

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I need help getting over him


Posted Sunday January 29 2012, 2:07 am

me and my bf of a year and a half broke up. i know it was the right decision because were at two very different places in our lives, but its still hard for me. hes in college having all the fun in the world, and it seems hes having too much fun to even care that were over, whereas im home thinking about it. even when i go out im thinking about it and it bothers me. I dont have any really close friends so im not looking to be told to "spend time with my friends". what else can i do to get over him? what can i tell myself? how can i occupy myself? its just so annoying thinking about it all the time. im in high school. need some empowerment here.. thx

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need help turning a guy on


Posted Sunday January 29 2012, 2:06 am

how to turn on a girl

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How to stop being paranoid about this new guy cheating on me


Posted Saturday January 28 2012, 4:20 pm

17/f. I've never really had a good relationship. I've been cheated on, lied to & disrespected. On Wednesday I met this guy(andrew) through my friend (it's her boyfriends cousin) and he asked if I wanted to hang out with him. We went to the park and the mall and hit it off real good but it seems as if something's not rite because he seems too perfect. He's 19, VERY respectful, and he claims to be loyal. He's been snoking cigarrettes since he was 14 and when i told him i didnt like that he told me he would quit for me. The next day he came to my school to visit me and it went good too. I can help but try to look for something bad about him because I'm not used to it. How can I stop being paranoid that he's goin to hurt me? We've been talking everyday and he tells me everything does.

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She broke up with me because I am too big?


Posted Saturday January 28 2012, 4:14 pm

me and my girl friend juat broke up because she thinks my d**K is to big, is tht such a bad thing or a bad thing at all


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not desprite


Posted Saturday January 28 2012, 4:53 am

okay im a male and i need a relationship thats fun and somethin sexy for both me and my girlfriend but i can ever find the right girl what should i do

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My crush is moving to england: i want to tell him i love him but im scared to death!


Posted Friday January 27 2012, 6:27 pm

hi i have a huge problem the guy i've liked for four years is moving to England. I started liking him when i was in fifth grade because he was hitting on me all the time and had alot of awkward eye contact but i didnt know if he was just kidding or not. Hes told me he loved me, that i was precious, that i would always be his baby, and everyone thought we liked eachother but after two years of not being in his class he kind off drifted off to another girl who talks to all the time like he used to talk to me but he still tells me he loves me but he sounds like hes kidding and now hes moving to England and hes really sad. i wanna tell him i love him but im scared to death...

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What does it feel like to be eaten out?


Posted Friday January 27 2012, 4:41 pm

Hi(: My boyfriend says he wants to eat me out and I'm ready. Kinda. It would be my first time and I want to know how it feels like so I'm prepared. Is there also anyway that I can imitate that feeling? Or do I just have to wait?

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We are on a break, but the thought of my boyfriend being with someone else makes me mad! Am I right to be mad, even though I made the decision?


Posted Friday January 27 2012, 1:42 am

Im applying to colleges, and soon i have to make a decision. me and my boyfriend of a year and a half are taking a break until i decide on a college, and if i end up in the school he attends, we will probably get back together. I just need a clear head for my decision. It may be stupid, but i asked him what his idea was on getting with other people during this break. He assumed we WOULD get with other people. that bothers me a lot. He said the only reason he would want to is because hes gonna be rushing a frat and theres going to be pressure and because out of like fear that im going to leave him in the end (or some sh*t like that). I'm just annoyed. am i justified in being annoyed... like i probably shouldnt have asked but i didn't think h...

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Friends with benefits???


Posted Thursday January 26 2012, 9:20 pm

I have been best friends with this guy for three years. He's my rock, he gets me through everything. We text everyday and hangout every weekend. I have no romantic feelings for him, I think. All I know is I wanna hook up with him sooooooo bad. He's expressed how he doesn't want another relationship for the rest of highschool but that he'd really like a f*ck buddy. I wanna volunteer! Haha but how do I do this without making things AWKARD? I really don't think it'll ruin friendship. We've both admitted were extremely attracted to each other. And I really just want a no strings attached kinda thing. Help?? (I'm sixteen, girl. He's 18, boy).

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Girl I like SO bad at texting me back.


Posted Thursday January 26 2012, 8:05 pm

Me and this girl really like each other and flirt a lot, but its almost impossible to communicate with her because she never responds to my texts. She tells me she loves me and cares about me a lot, but sometimes she will go weeks without talking to me. We saw each other 3 days ago when we went on a date, and really enjoyed ourselves, and afterwards I texted her like three times and she hasn't gotten back to me.

She has plenty of free time, and I know that she knows she can talk to me whenever she wants, she just chooses not to. It really irritates me because I value communication and she always does this to me. It really makes me worry that she doesn't like me all that much because I feel like a girl who really liked me woul...

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How to tell my boyfriend that he's moving to fast for me


Posted Thursday January 26 2012, 7:44 pm

Hello,
I'm 19 years old and very confused. Just a week or two ago, I met a guy at a party who I seemed to like. That very same night, we ended up making out and exchanging numbers obviously. Throughout the week, we hungout many times and I guess he talked me into foreplay. A few days after that, he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said no because it was moving to fast. Then literally two days later, he asked me again. I felt bad saying "no" , so I said yes and just thought I'd see how it goes. It's only been a few days but I feel as though I don't like him as much as I should. He's such a nice guy, but i feel as though I barely know him. I want to take it much slower, but I just don't know what exactly to say considering...

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Unrequited love


Posted Thursday January 26 2012, 6:43 pm

what can unrequited love do to a man, and how does he usually react towards the object of his love?

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