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How do I get my man to take charge in the bedroom?
I need advice on how to get my man to take control in the bedroom when we have sex its because I'm the one telling him to get upstairs and get his clothes of but I would really like it if he could make the first move and suprise me I'm the one who talks dirty and puts outfits on for him just once I would love it if he could just do that one thing for me
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Handcuff yourself and text him to hury up there. He will hopefully get it. Or TELL him to take charge. Read cosmopolitan it wil help more.
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You did not say if you are married or just living together. Doesn't really matter much, what your seeing is the real side of men once we get comfortable with our mates. Most men are just not the romantics Hollywood and writer portray us to be.
They will probably kick me out of the men's club for saying this. Fact is when we get horny we will find you and take you to bed probably not in a very romantic way. We will make love to you or just jump your bones and then rollover and go to sleep. We sort of feel we are a couple now if we want sex all we need to do is sorta ask for it or wait until you want it.
I'm a firm believer that in everything sexual it is the women that must teach the man. Here again they will kick me out of the club for this. But it is true. The man gets satisfaction much easier than the women so it is up to you to teach him what your needs are.
For what you are looking for from him may require a carrot and stick approach. If you can get him to be more dominant in the bedroom then maybe you can give him something he has been wanting and it does not have to be something sexual in return. But to have an enjoyable sex life it is important for each of you to teach the other what your needs are.
Just remember one thing. As long as both of you consent, and neither is hurt then their is nothing that is string or weird. Consenting is the magic word. If you both consent then you try it. If one doesn't like something then don't do it again, at least you tried it.
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Tell him that it's sexy when a man is dominant. Maybe he'll take the hint.
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