If your gf is away at college and has guys of one her friends sleeping in her room with her and her roommate and she cuddles with him would you look at it as cheating or something to be mad/hurt about? Or if they slept in the same bed? Guys and girls opinions are good
thelaura answered Monday January 30 2012, 5:37 am: Cuddles aren't really cheating in my eyes - however, you need to address to her that it's making you upset that she's seeking affection from other males. Could just be that she doesn't realize how you feel about it?
I think it's more the fact that you aren't there to see exactly what is going on, which in turn arouses suspicion.
Talk to her about it - and if she isn't willing to stop something as simple as cuddling up to other people in bed, maybe you should reconsider your relationship. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
Xui answered Sunday January 29 2012, 11:35 pm: It's cheating
When you are in a relationship there should never be a second person, It's about you and your partner that's it. Break up with her and move on [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
mannequin24 answered Sunday January 29 2012, 9:21 pm: First off, I am a girl. I would be pissed off if something like that happened to me. I wouldn't necessarily consider it cheating, but it is something to be mad about. You should talk to your gf before you do anything, tell her that she shouldn't being doing that. If she thinks that it won't bother you, it might get worse and she might cheat on you. And if she doesn't stop, then you need to break up with her. [ mannequin24's advice column | Ask mannequin24 A Question ]
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