Felicialynn answered Monday February 6 2012, 10:04 am: Shouldn't she like that!? I mean like most girls like it big... and even if not she could of gave it a try and you be gentle and wait till she is a little comfortable with it then GO HARD... And you could of had a non-sexual relationship... I hope this helped [ Felicialynn's advice column | Ask Felicialynn A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Sunday January 29 2012, 10:49 am: First: Your ex needs to remember what her vagina is designed to for, which is the birth of a child. A child is much larger than any penis I have ever heard about. If you are larger than average (see below) she may have been scared and it was your job to calm her and make her comfortable, not just pound into her.
Second: If in fact you are overly endowed. Remember that sex is for the enjoyment of both partners and that you may be longer or wider than a vagina is designed to accommodate during sex. If so it does not mean you can't have sex. It means you need to be more gentle especially at first until she becomes comfortable with you being in her if the problem is your girth. If it is your length then you need to shorten your stroke so you are not pounding her cervix and hurting her.
Below is some information you may find use full:
Average Vagina Size
Relaxed
Length 3 1/2 to 4 inches
Diameter 1 Inch
Aroused
Length ("tented) 5 to 6 inches
Diameter 1 1/2 to 2 inches
the average male penis when erect is between 5.1 & 5.9 inches long.
As you can see by the size chart of the average female vagina. Any penis over 6 inches in length and 2 inches in girth is larger than the average vagina can easily accommodate. A larger penis will cause a woman with an average sized vagina pain during intercourse, especially if the male is not a thoughtful and considerate lover.
So if your dimension are above average a women can accommodate you. She needs more stimulation so that she is properly lubricated and you need to be aware not to pound her cervix and cause her pain. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
ThirdParty answered Saturday January 28 2012, 11:51 pm: Actually, this could be a bad thing. Yes, a woman's vagina stretches; but it also has an end. That is, it doesn't just go on forever and ever. If you hit the cervix, especially really hard (like you would if you were having sex) that could REALLY hurt.
Imagine stubbing your toe. Now imagine stubbing it over and over, repeatedly until someone got off on it. That's basically what your girlfriend could have been experiencing.
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