My name is Felicia Lynn Bullock!(: I am a Freshman in high school and i am in color guard in my school's marching band... I love to text people and give people advice. I have a mother and a step dad who are my world. I have a little brother and an older brother, and a little sister! If you ever need adive... You know where to find me(:
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My friend treats her parents badly. She wants me to help her, but I don't know how. She treats them badly because of the things they do. Please help!
P.S. She doesn't hit them (link)
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Okay, well tell her to stay clam when they yell at her or something tell her that maybe they were right and if they weren't just grit your teeth and listen..
Me and my parent's don't get along that great either... but i try to listen and accept the fact that maybe they are right in some cases.
Tell her that maybe they can all sit down together and watch a movie or eat a nice meal, and just get some tension outta the way..
I hope this helps,
If you ever need anything.. You know where to find me(:
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ok, im like 14 years old and im super short. i hate it soo much. i see all my friends happy with their boyfriends and i REALLY want that. but i feel like all ill ever be to a guy is just a buddy, that short kid who is always just friends. pleaseee tell me IS ALL HOPE LOST? cuz im so cunfuzed and at this point i dont know what to do??? (link)
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I've always been shorter than all my friends. I'm 15 and like 5'1 while everyone else is like 5'8...
Don't lose hope just because your short. There is always hope!(:
Just wait on a guy to come to you. Don't force yourself on a guy just them find their way to you.
And for right now, be happy your single... Being in a relationship has it's good times, and its bad times also.
I hope things get better for you
If you ever need anything you know where to find me!!( :
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my boyfriend wants to do anal but i dont know if its a good idea. i need help! (link)
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Well, if you don't know if it's a good idea, then how can anyone else?? It's up to you. The ultimate decision is yours. If you want to then go for it, but if you don't then don't do it. If your boyfriend wants it, but you don't then just talk to him and tell him you don't think it's a good idea, and that you either need more time to think about it, or just don't want to do it( :
Hope this helps,
If you ever need advice, you know where to fine me!!
~(:
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Okay, so I have these two "friends" that I've known for a long time now. One of them has always been really jealous of me, dated every guy after I did, always tried to sabotage my relationships, etc. The other one was the same way, but slightly more sneaky about it and her thing was making everyone feel bad for her. So anyway, we were friends throughout high school and I always forgave them for everything they did and acted like nothing happened because I hate drama. But then Senior year, they made up a HUGE lie about me and everyone believed them. For about 3 months of my senior year, I had no friends. No one would talk to me, even teachers believed them. I was completely by myself. When I would walk in the room, they would make bitchy comments about me and everyone would laugh.
Then after we graduated I made the mistake of forgiving them and letting them too close, and they put sugar in my gas tank of my brand new car and ruined the motor. Since then they've done numerous other things to try and bring me down.
So fast forward to now. I am getting married in 5 months. My best friend (who WAS a mutual friend of theirs) is in my wedding as a bridesmaid. These girls think they are going to be as well... I have no idea where they got that idea, but thats what they think. I don't even want to invite them. But I really do not want any more drama, and I know that if they dont get an invitation they will raise hell again. I'm scared to lose all the friends I worked so hard to get back. But my mom (who is doing all of the invitations and basically in charge of everything guest-related) said she will NOT send them an invitation and is probably going to get security to keep them out. Honestly, I think if they come they will do something outrageous like knock over my cake or say something terrible about me. I guess I'm just on the fence about what to say to them when they find out theyre not invited. Or should I just invite them to save drama and risk them ruining my wedding?
Thanks so much for your help! (link)
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Their your friends!? They are far from friends. If i were you i wouldn't invite them i would ignore their texts/calls block them outta my life and IGNORE them. If it were me they wouldn't even know i was getting married. I personally think you shouldn't invite them to the wedding because look at your past with them. They are no friend to you! Let them raise heck bc u didn't invite them, haters are gonna hate, you can't change that, so why try? You should just forget about them, and let them find someone else's life because you don't deserve it( : Have a happy life without them. Be courageous enough to let them talk about you because no matter what they say their not in your life anymore so it shouldn't bother you
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Ok so I have a Bf and we are in a great relationship atm. But currently another guy has been talking to me on MSN. And Im on vacation and the other guy keeps saying he loves me and is asking me to dump my Bf for him. I dont know what to do because the other day, the other guy told me that he's going to kiss me and asked me if I'd kiss him back. I made the mistake of saying sure and I dont wanna cheat on my Bf since he's my first Bf. Plz help i dont know what to do!!! I dont wanna break up with my Bf but I kinda do wanna kiss the other guy (He's the player type) But my Bf isnt a kissing kind of guy, he's more of the hugging type. HELP ME!!! I need advice pronto! I like both but dont wanna break up with my Bf but wanna kiss the other guy :( HELP!!
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Guys want what they can't have. I have been in this position many times.. You should stick with your BF bc think of the situation the other way around. You wouldn't want your BF kissing all over other girls. I think you should stick with your BF bc all players do is break your heart... Trust me i know
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Ok I really need help. I have a problem with my emotions being to sensitive. Like I'll get really happy and really sad about the smallest things. And when things go wrong I get really upset like this girl hurt me and I wanna like die. Like does anyone know how to do something or take something so I can be like carefree I see people that are like whatever and don't let stuff like relationships and feelings bother them I wanna be like that. I also get jealous and mad over stupid stuff please help ASAP!!!!! (link)
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You may be Bipolar. I am, and i have to take certain medicines to keep me from being down in the dumps. Talk to your doctor about your possibilities of being bipolar. There is nothing wrong with it. I am 15 and been that way since i was like 10.. Maybe, if your not bipolar you may just have some things in your past that you haven't dealt with and your mind is trying to tell you that you need to. I hope this helps!(:
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Hey. 13/F. Just the other day my grandma came in the room with out knocking. And I was busy putting on a pad coz I was on my period. And I don't know wat to do ? My door was close. And I don't know how to tell my mom plz help (link)
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Well i use to have that problem when i was like 12. This is how i told my parent's. At supper one night i was like, "Okay, guys I am 12 and ya'll just walk in my room like its yours. You guys have to have more respect for me than that. I am growing up and I need MORE privacy in MY room..." and from that day on before anyone comes in my room they knock and WAIT for an answer..
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Hi!
I'm 12 and I had back surgery 4 years ago, and I still do every 6 months for growing rods, and a part of my back (beneath my shoulder) is and has been numb, and I can't feel anything there. Is this serious? Also, will it go away? (link)
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There's really no way to know for sure.. everyone's body is different... so if i were you i would go to the doctor and ask him is it normal or you should be concerned... i had shoulder surgery (ripped every muscle in my shoulder playing softball) and knee surgery ( i tore my ACL) and when anything seemed odd my mom would call my doctor.... i hope this helps(:
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Okay my sister is 15 and i don't know what we(me and my Mom) can do for her birthday. My mom just had a baby so there not much we can do with her.Here some stuff about us. Four girl so nothing boy like. Most likely my mom will want to be back at 7:00 pm 8:00 pm at the late. We are not morning people. Her birthday on a monday. (link)
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Well give her a Mary-Kay party... thats make-up.... or take her to get her permit... i recently turned 15 and my parents too me and a few friends to see a movie, then the next day they took me to get my permit.... and that was a good bday for me... or my friend she had a make up party where her and a couple friends got make overs and stuff like that. And my other best friend had a salon day where we all went to the salon and got our nails done... I hope this helps you come up with an idea...
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Hi I'm a 19 year old male. I just got hurt/used by this girl and have been hurt in the past numerous times so my opinion here might be kinda biased so looking for some other opinions. I feel like everytime I log onto Facebook or hear girls talk there something about guys being jerks and hurting them and there being no good guys left out there. Well I recently thought of it this way I'm sick of being hurt by girls and I'm sure other guys are too so maybe that's why there's no good guys out there? Because girls use and hurt and take advantage of the good guys that want to take care of you like me and then complain that we are jerks and asses and that's all you have to go to. Maybe if a girl didn't say she liked you and wanted to date and sleep with another guy a week later and hurt you when hour a nice guy and want to respect them but in turn you get screwed over every guy wouldn't be a jerk or a ass? I'm just curious to what others think or agree with me on this. (link)
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Typically guys always get called the bad guys, but most of the time girls are more emotional and let their emotions get the best of them. Some girls (like me) are to proud to admit they are wrong. I love when guys are sweet and kind to me, but i wouldn't ever cheat. I think it's sweet that you were sweet to her, but she cheated and used you. Sometimes girls are blind to see that a good guy has been there all along. I hope your relationships get better, and your luck with girls gets a lot better(:
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me and my girl friend juat broke up because she thinks my d**K is to big, is tht such a bad thing or a bad thing at all
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Shouldn't she like that!? I mean like most girls like it big... and even if not she could of gave it a try and you be gentle and wait till she is a little comfortable with it then GO HARD... And you could of had a non-sexual relationship... I hope this helped
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I am a sixteen-year old girl and I really hate my family. I usually have good days at school, but once I hit the steps of my home, all my happiness washes away. What's the problem exactly? Well, a lot of things, but mostly my mother. Let's start with her.
My mother and I both have a very violent past. My father abandoned us both when I was ten, and he would often abuse her and he cheated on her a few times. We used to be very close when I was a kid, but not much anymore. She is very nit-picky, bitchy, and forceful. She always complains that no one appreciates her, that no one cares about her, that no one ever helps her. I'll name a few examples. Yesterday, it was my six month anniversary with my boyfriend. It was my special day and I was really excited. I put on my favorite jeans, a nice shirt, and boots. She came in and said those jeans were ugly, and I said, "Well, I like these jeans." She got pissed and started crying about how no one loves her and I simply said I wanted to choose my own outfit. She threw a fit and slammed the door and the rest of the day, I couldn't even enjoy my day because she made me feel like shit. She always does that. She makes me feel so ugly and negative all the time by telling me I'm selfish and I am disrespectful. Also, I risk my education to watch her kids. I always skip school to help her out, and the next day she gets pissed at everyone because no one helps. I think it is unfair. I bust my ass for her. I take up all my after school time cleaning the house for her and she doesn't ever notice. She threatens me all the time. Once, I woke up at 5 a.m. and found cat poop on my sheets. I put the sheets aside and went back to bed with new sheets. The next morning, I told my mom, and she told me that I am a scumbag and I should've washed my sheets right away. At 5 a.m.? I told her I needed my sleep and I didn't have time for that, and I put them aside to wash them in the morning. She started freaking out when I told her she didn't need to yell at me for that, she pulled my by my hair into the bedroom and told me she would bash my head through the wall and smash my phone onto the floor if I said another thing. I was really upset that day and I called my boyfriend and we left.
I hate it here. I am constantly yelled at, bitched at, never appreciated, and a victim to abuse and negativity. I don't have a very good self-confidence because my mother always brings me down. She wants me to be what she wants, not what I want. She complains I'm lazy and I don't try hard enough. She never appreciates what I do for her. I can't ever be in a tired mood or not in the mood to talk to anyone. She expects me to be in a good mood all the time. When she found out I had sex for the first time, she told me I was a slut. She took me to therapy and a doctor because she thought I was sleeping around with everyone. She does her best to restrict me from sex all the time. I can't even talk to her in a mature way about it. Because my boyfriend and I are always alone, we do have sex, but responsibly. If I'm responsible about it, why does it matter if I'm doing it or not?
My family fights a lot. My stepdad is very uncaring and often acts like a douchebag. He is selfish and never respects my mother. This house is haunted with constant yelling and screaming. I stopped it once, because there was slamming of glass and crying and pounding and my little brother was crying. I talked to my parents the next day and we agreed to fix it. That's just it. Nothing got fixed. We all agreed to have a nice talk and we did, and nothing ever changed. My mom never goes through with anything.
How much more of this do I have to take? I have posted advice on this before, but most of them involve calling child support and such. I don't want to do that. I don't want my sister and brother being taken away as well. I've wanted to get out of here for a long time. My boyfriend told me my mother is an asshole and she doesn't have the right to treat me this way. He doesn't like my parents because they always make me cry. I've always wanted to move in with him even if we're both young. I don't want to live here anymore, but I doubt I could get the change I want, because I have no job or license. Please help. I need guidance. I don't deserve any of this. I'm a good kid.. (link)
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I'm 15 and i go though the same things with my family. I don't exactly hate them, but i get along with them either. My mom remarried after my dad left her, my brother, and myself. My step dad is rude and easy to like. Me and my mom don't ever get along. What usually helps me is when i just go to my room and just text people. When they yell at me, i usually block them out and just pretend to listen. I constantly have to remind myself that one day it will be better for me! Read a Bible... You may not be into all that kinda stuff, but i promise you would be suprise how God can work in your life. You don't have to go to church EVERY Sunday and pray EVERY second of the day, but when your feeling alone Jesus will be your rock(:
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I get really bad cramps when I'm on my period. I was just wondering if anybody knew any home remedies or tips for when it gets really bad. Thanks in advance for all answers! (link)
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Chocolate milk and lots of sleep... take some advil or midol if they get so bad you can't stand it...
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