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is this being aroused?


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 9:09 pm

Okay, so I'm 16 years old and just got into my first serious relationship. Yay! :) Happy days.

Anyways....when my boyfriend and I make out, I can feel "that area" getting kind of wet. Today when I got home I went into the bathroom to check and there was this whitish clear liquid in my underwear and around my vagina. Is this cum? And is this a result of being aroused? I didn't think you cum-ed until having sex at an orgasm? Because we haven't really gotten hot & heavy or anything like that yet.

Is there such a thing as just getting wet easily? Cause I mean I really haven't felt that urge to just keep pushing further and further, you know? Like that sexual desire. Yet I noticed its kind of a good a...

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he doesnt want to see me...


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 8:45 pm

hey, my bf and i have been going out for 9 months now and ive noticed in the last few months he doesnt ask to see me anymore. i dont know what to do about it. ive tried not asking to see him, i waited a month and i gave up cause i missed him too much. ive also talked to him about it in one of my bad moods. and now i refuse to be the one to text him first.how can i make him want to see me more? am i too available to him? im also going to malaysia next month and i wont be able to talk to him for 2 1/2 weeks, do you think that'll make him want to see me more? help me! i dont know what to do
btw im 16f, he is 17m
thanks

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kicking balls


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 8:42 pm

Do any women in New Jersey over the age of 18 have the guts to kick me in the balls?

I bet $500 that no women have the guts to kick me in the nuts without feeling bad about it. The same day that happens is the same day I'll put on panties and dance to a Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, Rihanna, Katy Perry, or Pussycat Dolls song. That's how sure I am! You can pick out the song and panties, I don't care!

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WHO IS THIS COMEDIAN?!


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 7:43 pm

I can't remember the guys name but he had a special on comedy central presents! He was jewish and he would make fun of himself saying "so my last name is jewyjewhebrewsburg.." at least it isn't "smallpenisbignose-something-something(can't remember the rest) XD Also another joke was he was doing an attempt of a ghetto accent saying "Bible drops march 15 yo! check it out" Any ways he was amazingly funny and i've looked all over youtube and google to find him. But i cant. So i need your help, anyone know who this guy is? i'll love you forever,really.

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so there is this girl..


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 7:42 pm

(IM A GIRL) There is this girl at my shcool that i really like. she is super cute and has a great personality. we text like everynightt but i dont know if she is in to me. im not really open about kinda being bicurious so i dont know if she knows that im like that. but how do u know when the girl likes you? and how do you get a girl to like you

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Getting into a 16+ concert


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 7:34 pm

Theres a show i want to go to around the end of November. The problem is that you have to be 16 or older. I'm still 14 but i turn 15 in October. I dont look young (i've had people that thought i was in college) at all so will that benifit me? I need to show an ID? I have my school ID and it doesn't show the year I graduate. could i use that?

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Whens the time?


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 7:09 pm

Well i'm 16 and i have this boyfriend and we've only been going out for about a month and a half but we've been really close friends and not the lil yeah yeah we were close friends whatever type of deal, like we really hung out played video games talked on the phone had classes together, everything, for about 8 months. I know him really well and i get to see him a lot. Like practically everyday, we've done everything from going to the movies on a double date to takin naps together. I'm comfortable with him in public as my boyfriend and comfortable alone and intimate as not so much crazy making out but more opening myself up to him. I've let him get to second base already but i'm not sure if i should let him get further, you know like let hi...

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ahh


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 6:52 pm

So my boyfriend and I had sex for our first time 2 and a half weeks ago and then we did again a week later. All fully protected and safe, he didn't cum or anything. I just still am paranoid. My 28th day was yesterday and i usually start between 29-32 days, I'm on time usually and I am just paranoid. I want my period to come but I try not to think about it. I've had like alot of wetness in my underwear, well not alot but a good amount and I just wondered if that was normal. Is my period coming?

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Mononucleosis or just a cold?


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 5:47 pm

I am 17/F.
For the past 3 days I have been feeling crappy. It started with sore throat and headache, and now I am extremely tired and my muscles are sore. My throat feels swollen all the way up to under my ears. I go from burning up and sweating to freezing and getting chills and goosebumps constantly. Even as my head feels hot the rest of my body is freezing. My nose is running a lot, and i just feel kind of sad and confused some of the time.

Its possible i am just sore from cheerleading, and am tired from school, but im not sure. a girl on my team has mono and just recently started practice with us again, and i work with a kindergarten class 3 times a week, so that doesnt help much!

I hate wasting my ...

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hate texting


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 5:46 pm

so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year. we live like a half hour away and go to different schools so we only get to see each other like once, twice a week if we're lucky. we've made things work cause we love each other. buuutt i have one problem:

he used to text me all of the time like pretty much everyday during the first 5 months we were dating, after that he barely ever texts me, like im the one who has to text first and sometimes i dont even get a reply or he replies like a day later or something..idk...he says he just doesn't like texting, but i like to talk to him and stuff during the week. some nights we talk on the phone but we do that once a week, if that. i've told him i want to text and stuff but it jus...

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vegetarian recipies!


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 5:37 pm

i'm semi-new to being vegetarian, like i've been on & off for forever now, but i only stop, because i get sick of the same old thing. i need help thinking of really simple recipies i can make myself. like i found vegetable burittos, that were very easy, and i want other vegetarian/vegan snacks/recipies that are simple & quick to make. i'm the only vegetarian in my house, so yeah. & i like vegetables, and all that, and i'm open to about anything. :)

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Sick of people telling me tht my boyfriends bi or gay


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 5:33 pm

Ok. My boy friend has a lot of people who hate him and dislike him,he's nice, sweet and cares about people and people think that means he's gay! His friend told me that people started a rumor about him that he's bisexual and stuff. It ruined his reputation. I believe that he doesn't because he never told me he was, and he flirts and says he wants me in his bed LOL so, like idk what to do, it worrys me. See He's in 9th im in 8th. The homecomings coming up and i cant come :/ I asked him if he's going with anyone he said "ya with a guy tyler JK" SO i dont know.. what should i do? Is there any signs to if he is or not? I really love him, and he said himself he loved me two? so.. help?

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Halloween costumes


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 5:19 pm

At my school, the seniors compete in a costume contest every year. We go on stage and perform a skit based on what our costumes are.

There's about 7-8 of us in the group, 3 of which our guys and the rest are girls.
We were thinking about Power Rangers..going on stage and playing "Go go power rangers!" and having one of us dress up as a monster randomly come up and we'll fight it haha.

I like this idea... but I want a costume that's "cuter".

..So I need IDEAS!!!!!!

..Feedback on the power ranger idea?

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What is the easiest way to commit suicide


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 4:02 pm

what is the easiest way to commit suicide


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a song on ABC Family


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 3:59 pm

Ok, so on the commercial for ABC Family there is this theme song that i cant really make out until the end, and all you hear at the end is "I will be coming home..."
This has been driving me and my roomates INSANE!!!
I think he, yes a guy is singing it, says "to you" after the "i will be coming home" part but again im not 100% sure.
I need to know what the name of that song is and/or who it is by. Whoever responds to this, me and my 3 roomates are forever in your debt.

Im not sure, BUT i think this is how it the song goes:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d_2ud1UhSdU&feature=related
From the start to 0:43 is the song. IF IT IS THE RIGHT SONG, then he says &qu...

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Help! I'm becoming a snoop.


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 3:58 pm

Early on in our relationship, my now live-in boyfriend of 1.5 years admitted to me that he had cheated on almost every girlfriend he had ever had. But since we fell in love a few months later, he swears up and down that I am different - that he would never cheat. He says he loves me, respects me, and that we have a long future together. To my knowledge, he has never given me a reason not to believe him.

Despite all this, I find myself becoming more and more suspicious of him as time goes by. I secretly look at photos of his old girlfriends on his computer, I google them, and I am especially obsessed with one old flame in particular - a girl I know he has cheated with in past relationships. I look at her blog, dream about them...

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does he like me?


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 12:18 pm

sorry if this is long ..
to start with there is a guy i like called jared. i have known him for months now and we have just been flirtin and hanging out together .. anyways we had a fall out last month and although we have kinda made up .. things r still rocky between us .. im not sure how to take things he says and i dont know if he likes me anymore (just after we made up he said sorry and that he really liked me) we dont talk much anymore .. he will text me and ask how am i then i reply and he doesnt respond .. but whenever i see him he is always like "laurennnn" and will try hugging and kissing me. i dont know what to do, is he thinking we should just be friends now?

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STI's


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 11:40 am

18/f: Hey. So my boyfriend and I had a lot of problems. He was overly insecure and jealous and yelled all the time. I really needed emotional support at the time and after a few months I ended up cheating on him. Me and this new guy had sex a few times and didn't use a condom. He was quite promiscuous and looking back it's probably the most stupid and dangerous thing I've ever done. My boyfriend and I broke up but after a while, we both had personal problems we had to deal with. But now I think we both know where we went wrong and we're trying to work on it. It's weird because in a way I think we're stonger than ever. We have a no secrets policy now lol. I told him everything about this guy I cheated on him with including that we didn't use...

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I'm horrible with these things...


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 8:50 am

There's this girl in my class, and we were just sitting around talking, and she pulled a dollar out of her purse while she was digging for her phone and set it down for a minute, so i took and my uncle had taught me how to, so i made a ring out of it because i was bored, lol, and i set it back down. she smiled, and took it and was like, "aw, yes, i will" and we started laughing about it. Well anyways, later, i was singing 'I Want to Hold Your Hand', by the beatles, and i got to the part and said, "i hope you'll understand" and she was like, "I understand!"
Those are two specific things, but we flirt sometimes, and I asked her for her number so I could text her, and she gave it to me, but maybe just becau...

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He doesn't know I'm a girl..


Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 8:37 am

I'm a 20 year old transexual FtM[female to male]. I met this boy, whom I've seem to have fallen for. The only problem is, he thinks I'm a boy. Worst part is, he's gay. He likes me a lot, but I'm too scared to tell him the truth. He has no interest in females, what-so-ever. I don't know what to do. I know I need to tell him, but how do I do it? How do I tell him that I'm not that amazing guy he thinks I am? I'm worried. He hurts himself; cuts himself. He injured himself because he has a boyfriend and can't be with me. I'm afraid that he'll do a lot worse if I tell him I'm not a boy. What do I do?

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