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Sick of people telling me tht my boyfriends bi or gay
Ok. My boy friend has a lot of people who hate him and dislike him,he's nice, sweet and cares about people and people think that means he's gay! His friend told me that people started a rumor about him that he's bisexual and stuff. It ruined his reputation. I believe that he doesn't because he never told me he was, and he flirts and says he wants me in his bed LOL so, like idk what to do, it worrys me. See He's in 9th im in 8th. The homecomings coming up and i cant come :/ I asked him if he's going with anyone he said "ya with a guy tyler JK" SO i dont know.. what should i do? Is there any signs to if he is or not? I really love him, and he said himself he loved me two? so.. help?
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If your boyfriend is gay, he wouldn't date you in the first place, right? Why would he care so much about you if he doesn't like you? Unless you're not sure if he loves you, gay is not a possibility at all. Ask him if you think he might be lying.
If he's a bisexual, I don't think there's a problem with that. As long as he loves you and you love him, why care? He might not think of being bisexual when you two are so happy together.
PLEASE don't hate him if he's gay or bisexual. At least give him a chance to explain. I think I might be a lesbian and I always feel sad when I see people hating homosexual and bisexual. This is just a personal favor I'm asking because you seem nice, you can ignore me. It's your choice.
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If you know that your boyfriend is straight, then that's that. Don't listen to what people say about him. They're either jealous, or they're just assholes. Either way, it's no reason to listen to them. They're doing this because they know it'll bug him or you, and they like getting arise out of you.
If you're not positive that he's straight, ask him. Honesty is a really big part of a relationship. He'll tell you what's up.
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It doesn't matter what other people say, as said below, but it matters about how you feel about each other. If he does have some feelings for other guys, and you love him, then it shouldn't matter.
But I'm guessing he's not gay because if people dislike him and it was a rumor, then obviously it was just a rumor.
Also, so what? gay/bi people are often more understanding and loyal and trustworthy than the average guy.
If you guys can't go to homecoming together do what me and my boyfriend did and just go out to dinner and hangout with each other.
I hope I helped :)
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Well, most importantly, it shouldn't matter what others say, or what rumors are going around. That stuff has nothing to do with you and him.
As for your worries of whether or not there may be truth to what they say, ASK HIM. One of the big keys to a good relationship is honesty. You be honest by asking him questions, and expect honest answers in return.
That's the only way you'll know for sure.
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