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is this being aroused?


Question Posted Wednesday September 16 2009, 9:09 pm

Okay, so I'm 16 years old and just got into my first serious relationship. Yay! :) Happy days.

Anyways....when my boyfriend and I make out, I can feel "that area" getting kind of wet. Today when I got home I went into the bathroom to check and there was this whitish clear liquid in my underwear and around my vagina. Is this cum? And is this a result of being aroused? I didn't think you cum-ed until having sex at an orgasm? Because we haven't really gotten hot & heavy or anything like that yet.

Is there such a thing as just getting wet easily? Cause I mean I really haven't felt that urge to just keep pushing further and further, you know? Like that sexual desire. Yet I noticed its kind of a good amount of this liquid stuff because I can feel it there after we've made out and it can be sorta uncomfortable.

Oh, and is that "fireworks" thing during a kiss real? Because I've never really had that firework moment during a kiss. I mean I enjoy it a lot, but I've never felt that fireworks thing with anyone I have kissed.

If anyone could help explain this, I'd appreciate it!

Thank you!

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no_reason answered Friday September 18 2009, 1:45 pm:
yeah, it totally normal, and a good sign! but the fireworks thing..well, unles you kiss on the fourth of july, when there are actual fireworks, you'll be waiting for a VERY long time. yeah that's movie crap. but amazing kisses aren't you just have to be more open minded. and the fact that your'e getting wet when you kiss him, seems like you've got that already! :)

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millymoo answered Thursday September 17 2009, 4:53 am:
hey
thats a good question.
your situation is completely normal for a girl so dont worry about it too much, i get the same thing and ive looked it up and stuff, there isnt much you can do about it really. some girls get wet really easily and other dont, personally i think its better to be nice and wet lol this sounds weird, sorry. the reason i think its better to be wet is because its easier to have sex and it feels nicer, so ive been told.
i think its your body just thinking you might have sex or something and getting ready for it, im not sure. but yeah, it is normal :) i hate it too but what can you do about it really.
im also unsure of the fireworks, i dont think it happens to everyone, ive been in my relationship for over 9 months now and have never had it happen to me before. either its just movie crap, or something that could happen over time, maybe one day when you wake up with your partner after 2 years it could happen.
well i hope this helped you out a little bit :)

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