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bad sexual experience
Posted Wednesday January 14 2009, 9:41 pm
I am a female and have had sex with two different guys, but only a few times with each. They were both my boyfriends and were both virgins, so there was no pressure for me. Still, sex never felt good for me. Now I am with a new guy who had sex all the time with his ex-gf. From the beginning this made me nervous because I am not as experienced but I still wanted to. So, we tried, and it all went wrong. He tried to go inside me but for some reason couldnt and then went soft. I know its not cause he couldnt fit because I have had sex before with long periods of time between. I tried getting him hard again, but then he cummed and we couldnt try again. I felt like what happened was my fault and I am nervous to try again. I am also afraid that w...
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cherry popped
Posted Tuesday January 13 2009, 7:04 pm
ok so i had sex with my boyfriend a couple of times now but last time we did my "cherry popped" and i'm still bleeding a little after 3 days. is this a problem?
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This isnt slutty right..? :/
Posted Tuesday January 13 2009, 5:29 pm
would it be considered slutty to give a guy a handjob if ive only seen him twice at my friends house and we arent going out and all he wants from me is sexual favors..i like him and i sort of want to but i sort of dont and im afraid this will make me a slut and he'll tell all his friends and ill seem like a slut. he also wants to eat me out and finger me but i told him i dont know maybe. because i mean we arent even going out and whenever i bring up the topic of him liking me he just says he doesnt know and that he wants me. but then he says he wants me to do these things, he means. i sort of want to but i feel like thats kind of slutty..i mean its not like im doing it to all of these guys, its just one guy. and i like him. but i dont thin...
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Pregnant?
Posted Tuesday January 13 2009, 3:33 pm
So, I ended up losing my virginity to my boyfriend around Thanksgiving. Since then we've been having sex regularly. In early December we were having sex and he didn't pull out in time, and, well, you know the rest. After that I had an irregular and way lighter period that lasted longer than usual. But it was so off and different that it didn't even seem like a period. After I had stopped bleeding, we began having sex again. And, well, he didn't pull out then either...
My period has always been regular, always at the beginning of the month. And now it's Jan 13th and I'm getting worried.
What do I do? Am I pregnant?
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V.day
Posted Tuesday January 13 2009, 3:03 pm
Okay for valentines day i've worked it out and i will probably be on my period..i'm on the pill so i know. My boyfriend and i very rarely get to have sex as our parents like never leave the houses. For valentines day or even the weekend before or after i want to do something a little different like pick some lingerie and do something different with him..Have some loose hot fun if that makes sence..he wouldn't reli expect it from me. But thing is theres no where really to go. Any ideas? Even if its place? or just things we can do to spice things up a bit would be a great help? as i said i don't usually do this but i'm totally up for it =]
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ready for more.
Posted Monday January 12 2009, 9:53 pm
okay dont start with your to young to think about this stuff okay ive herd it all so shh just answer my question.
im 15/f and my boyfriend right nows 14/m.
okay well weve been off and on sence last may we get in lil tussels you could say. so now were dateing again and its going wounderful it really is. i love being with him and hes the only guy i can really see my self with. and im ready to take it to the next leavel all weve done is make out. and we talk about haveing sex but im not truely ready for that i just wanna do some oral things. but im not sure if hes up to it. i mean we talked about waiting about two months ago bc i wasnt ready but now i am ready and i would like to suprise him but were never alone his paare...
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handjobs and blowjobs
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 11:54 pm
so I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and he eats me out and fingers me all the time but i haven't really given him a hand job or a blow job. I have touched his penis and licked it though. I just get really nervous when I'm about to and i dont know whats wrong with me. Any advice on how to give him a handjob or blow job and how to calm my nerves?
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the pill
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 11:53 pm
So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and im sick of just "messing" around. I want to have sex with him but im afraid that i might get pregnant so i want to be put on the pill, but the problem is im 17 and my mom would have to go with me to the doctor. I dont want to tell my mom that i want to have sex because she will freak out on me. She believes in waiting until marriage. I think I'm going to tell her that I just want birth control so my periods will be on schedule and not at different times each month and because I'm sick of them. Any advice for me on how to bring it up or how to ask?
P.S. I also don't want my dad to find out.
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Advice Needed
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 11:28 pm
Im 25 and my ex is 24. She has a child that is not by me but never else I loved them both as if he was mine. We were together for close to two years. I proposed to her. After a week proposing to her she wanted to go and get eloped. I told her that I wanted to get a place and a vehicle before we got married. I didn't want to live 10 miles away from my wife. After i told her that she broke up with me and told me that i was too slow for her. I bought over 6 thousand dollars of diamonds and jewelry on her and she bought me a ring. When we broke up she told me that she wanted the ring back. I asked why. She told me that it was a symbol of her love and she didn't want me to have it. So i asked her for the stuff i bought her and she told me no bec...
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Orgasms, and Lipstick.
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 6:36 pm
I have this big problem, that whenever I really need to have a very strong orgasm, I need to wear lipstick, my lady partner does not like this though. Which is very difficult for me because I want to have an orgasm, I dont know how I can convince her, to let it go, and let me enjoy myself. Could someone please help?
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Worrier of sex
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 2:02 pm
I am a total worrier
But the one thing I worry about is sex really.
So here are some questions
1) What position are you usually in if your being fingered - what should you do ? where should your hands go?
2) And if your making out and you want to actually do it and he puts on the condom - doesn't that like kill the mood a little?? Like your all in the mood and then its like wait, let me put one on..how long would it take?
3) Can you tell me of how it feels for the first time? What it's like?
4) Being fingered ; does it hurt?
5)Do guys ever look at your body naked whilst your having sex. I never go into relationships because I hate my body and I wouldnt want someone else looking at it
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Plan B
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 1:06 pm
I was on birth control for about a year and a half and decided to come off of it after I finished my period in early December. My boyfriend and I had sex on New Year's Eve. It was protected sex all but once when we were in the bathtub. I was no longer on birth control at this time (i stopped taking it around the 15th at the end of the pack), but I took Plan B when I woke up the morning after(about 4 hours later). I am about a week late on my period. Is this because of coming off of the birth control? I understood that Plan B makes your period come sooner. Can anybody help me underdstand this situation.
Thank you
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this guy
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 7:27 am
hey im 17
theres this guy i reali like , and we meet up and havve sex, i no its not right blah blah, but he turned around and said to me this morning he want to make sure he cums in me , he never used protection, which i totally dont argree but i still shag him, he tld me that he wants a kid because its the only way he wil stop him frm getting into troble, so i think hes just having sex wit me to get pregnant , but im no where ready to have a kid, if been thinking about it but no im 17 i just want to settle down , im not even with this lad, i dont no what to say to him? if i say no then i think im going to lose him or hes going to have sex with someone ? i realy want to be with him , i just keep thinking to myself if i keep h...
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I think It's about time to ask for help
Posted Sunday January 11 2009, 6:11 am
hello. im 16 years old, turning 17 after 1 month and couple of days and a female.
well if you wonder what i look like, you would notice my piercings, um black hair , dark brown eyes, almost pale skin, tall enough.
well i hate something called depression, i\'m always happy but not really from inside, i want people to help me out and tell me i\'m fine and i\'m not going to go insane well i know that part i mean i\'ll never think of suicide or something that\'s stupid no! i need to solve my problems
well first of all i tried liking my sister, i tried convincing myself that i just don\'t like her now because she is being a bitch but i lover her because she is my sister , but the truth is i can\'t jus...
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getting over it?
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 11:26 pm
okay so like im usually like insanely comfortable with guys. like i can kiss them and hook up and whatever but like its weird when it comes to like anything more. im usually up for anything, like i always feel fine saying ill do stuff with a guy and ill be so comfortable with him and totally game for doing stuff but then literally at the last second i stop him and i dont know why. like i always get mad at myself for not letting it happen. how do like i get over that?
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sex
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 9:34 pm
is it ok to have sex with more then 3 poeole at the same time?
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uhhh, lesbian sex.
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 8:28 pm
ugh, okay so. im 17/f. lesbian, ha.
ive had sex with one guy, once, like two years ago.
my girlfriend and i have been dating for 10 months and i bleed when we have sex! ugh. its gross and i feel weird. i dont know why i do. this is kinda awkward for me to be saying this, ha.. buuuut she only uses two fingers.. and shes not like a giant with man hands. we dont use strap ons or dildos or anything..
and i dont bleed every single time.
but alot of the time i do..
does anyone know why?!
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period?
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 8:17 pm
so, my boyfriend and i first had sex the week i was supposed to get my period in december. after that, my period came about 5 days late. (but it did come)
i used the seventeen.com period planner and it said that i should be getting my period for this month on the 21st. but i think i'm already pmsing?
my ovaries are kind of throbbing and i'm starting to crave the usual things that i crave when i pms.
is this just pmsing?
thanks :)
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questions about having sex
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 7:28 pm
i just lost my virginity sunday 4, 2009.
and my boyfriend and i were going to do it again maybe this week or next weekend.
the first time i was on bottom. the second time, will it hurt as bad as it did the first time? and should he be on bottom or top? [im just wanting a way for less pain.] and i heard that it takes around 3 times maybe for it to not hurt anymore. help?
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sexual things dont attract me...
Posted Saturday January 10 2009, 6:57 pm
i don't really like doing sexual things.
sure, they feel good...but after it all im wet and i feel so gross. is this normal? and when my boyfriend was fingering me it kinda felt good but i couldnt relax because im pretty tight and i kept thinking he was gonna accidently do something wrong...(first time fingering someone)
so is this normal?
16/f
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