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is it ok to have sex with more then 3 poeole at the same time?
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No, it's not okay to have sex with more than 3 people at the same time.
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No.
It isn't healthy for you mentally, physically, or emotionally.
Sex brings a lot of drama to relationships as it is. If two people are not compatible in bed they can end up breaking up or cheating on each other--leading to, at the very least, heartbreak. Having more than ONE person be your sexual partner is very hard for a human to even out, especially if they are seeking "good sex" with each partner.
Sex puts you in a very vulnerable state. Your brain changes chemistry for a bit as new hormones are released and endorphines begin to run about to excite you. You are naked in front of, at least, one other human being. Humans are very weary about being naked as it shows their complete physical flaws. From here, things can happen that could change your life forever--you could do something without thinking and regret it, you could be physically hurt, you could be emotionally traumatized (most common if the partner does not seem to share the same sensations or connections), or even develop an issue with relationships--in that ONE encounter.
STDs are everywhere now. Babies are being born with STDs. Children are contracting STDs from their parents (unwashed hands during diaper changes--if you don't believe me, check out some of the herpes forums). This means that even VIRGINS can HAVE STDS! For note, condoms don't prevent or protect you from STDs if you have yet to pick that up in your sex ed. class. The tiny pores in the condoms allow such viruses to pass through but aren't large enough to allow sperm to pass through. So, in those moments of sexual relations (and, no, you don't have to have intercourse to contract STDs--even you being fingered could leave you with a nasty life-long surprise) your body is vulnerable in this way.
Then there is pregnancy. If you contract an STD before or during pregnancy then your child may be born with severe disabilities. If you have sex with three men--who is the father? Will anyone want to take responsiblity when it gets down to it? Probably not. How would you tell your child that you had sex with three different men and had to figure out which one was their father?
The truth is, when you engage in a friends with benefits "relationship" (which you'd have to because it's doubtful you could grow equal strong attachments to each partner) you never do learn how to communicate effectively for a true relationship. This is why a lot of men and women who use to be in that sort of "relationship" always end up in the same place, without a personal attachment to their sexual partner.
A person that engages in those types of relationships tends to already have low self esteem and a low self concept of themselves. They are seeking what they feel is the only "love" they are able to get because they are just so unworthy of other types of care. These relationships tend to bring the person down further, to where they will circle the same path over and over in life. They tend to be the ones that never marry, or do not marry until very, very late in life because it takes them that long to figure out how to un-do the bad things they had taught themselves in poor relationships before. I know many people like this and you DEFINITELY do not want this type of emotional/mental scar.
The statistics you get on contraceptive methods are for PERFECT usage. PERFECT is something we are not so you should always be aware of the TYPICAL percentage of effectiveness:
Hormonal birth control pills are only 92% effective with typical usage.
Condoms are only 84% effective with typical usage.
The "pull-out" method is somewhere between 25% - 70% effective, typically.
Spermicidal lube CAN increase a condom's effectiveness UP TO 5%.
The "morning-after" pill is actually only about 70% effective on average.
Lastly, prepare yourself for the worst in case you're faced with it. Here are some links. Even if it seems stupid to read and look through these now, you may end up in a situation where you'll be thankful you did...
Read through my answer here:
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Virginity...is it worthwhile?:
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Is ANY sex safe sex?:
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Here is a link about pregnancy costs to know about:
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Here is a link that has some really freaky STD facts:
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Here is a link to photos of STDs you should research so you're aware of what they look like on the body:
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My answer, here:
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For the last note, if you question an activity as being "slutty" then it is, nine times out of ten, a slutty behavior. If you question an activity as being bad then it is, nine times out of ten, bad behavior. If you have to question it, then there's a reason why you feel that way. Sometimes your conscious is screaming at you even when you don't want to listen. Most people who ask questions like this to a pool of people they feel do the same thing are simply looking for psychological relief for their guilt of being perceived as a slut for the bad activities they do. (Associates degree in psychology taught me this.)
Please, think carefully before making any decisions if you are considering this sort of sexual encounter.
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It's really up to you. Your going to do what you want anyway.
xoxo,
dottie4
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Whatever floats your boat. Just remember the risks.
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Dude. It's up to you. No problem have sex with 100 of guys
But It's all up to you, If you're fine with some people around talking. Then you're free to do it
If you're okay to face god when your life is over. Then go ahead and don't It no problem
It's all up to you, I mean I'm not the one who is going to get fucked from three different people right?
So go on and do It BUT don't you didn't later on and use protection carefully
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Our cultural upbringing and religious convictions are strong determinants of where we stand on this issue. Personally, I will not make a habit of doing it because having sex for me is to sleep with someone to whom you share a strong emotional attachment with, someone you cared about deeply. But for argument’s sake, why don’t we take a look at both sides of the coin? For some people it's easy to have sex with someone whom they have just met. People are comfortable doing it, some say for experience, sort of a hand-on job to learn a good deal about it. Well, as long as you will not forget to take necessary precautions to avoid getting any sexually transmitted disease (or getting pregnant for that matter) i guess you got my nod on it.
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If you're asking on this website, the answer is most definitely and emphatically no.
If you weren't asking on this website, the answer would merely be most definitely no.
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if it's an open relationship/marriage then yeah its okay since everyone knows what is going on and there's no cheating or anything. but doing that is also a chance for getting diseases like stds and stuff and i'm sure you know that already.
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Yes, it's three times as exciting when you miss your period.
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Here's the deal; it is OK to do anything sexual as long as you feel comfortable with it. A lot of times people get caught up in the moment and before they know it, it is over with, and they are saying to themselves, "what the hell just happened?" If you are asking the question because you heard someone else did it, try not to judge. You don't want anyone to judge you. If it is something you are considering, I don't think you should do it, yet, because you aren't sure how you feel about it. If it is something you have already done, accept it as a learning experience, forgive yourself if your angry, and try to concentrate on the good. If this was a group of people who really respected and cared about eachother it could even be a great experience.
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I would honestly have to say that it's not the best idea, but there also isn't any laws against it. Atleast where I'm.
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There can be as many of people if you want, ever heard of a thing called an 'orgy'? Mostly known to having a group of people having sex all together. If your fine with it, it shouldn't be a problem. Perhaps if its one girl and a group of guys.. then perhaps some may put labels there. If your okay with it and what your doing. It shouldn't matter its your life you only live once. ;)
Hope I helped.
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depends on your standards. if you're comfortable with it, then yes. why not?
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