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bad sexual experience
I am a female and have had sex with two different guys, but only a few times with each. They were both my boyfriends and were both virgins, so there was no pressure for me. Still, sex never felt good for me. Now I am with a new guy who had sex all the time with his ex-gf. From the beginning this made me nervous because I am not as experienced but I still wanted to. So, we tried, and it all went wrong. He tried to go inside me but for some reason couldnt and then went soft. I know its not cause he couldnt fit because I have had sex before with long periods of time between. I tried getting him hard again, but then he cummed and we couldnt try again. I felt like what happened was my fault and I am nervous to try again. I am also afraid that we will never be able to connect sexually, and I don't think i can continue to be with him if thats the case. Any advice for this sittuation would be appreciated.
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Relax and don't be nervous. It leads to
tension and dryness which makes it hard
to do a thing! Its not your fault at all.
It happens. Lubricant and no worries.
He will fit. Trust me, he doesn't care
about weather or not he is more experienced.
Relax. :)
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You seem young, and its ok to mess it up when you're starting out. Just laugh it off and try again next time. Buy lubricant and use it alot. It will help with the non entry thing.
Good luck!
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