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Money
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 7:25 pm
Money problems with the man that I love. He has steep child support that is deducted from his checks weekly. He works as a checker 40 hrs a week. I am supporting him and myself and my three boys. If he gets any money from his checks it is usually between 20 and 80 dollars depending on union dues and such. with what money he gets from his check, he fills up his truck with gas and gives me what is left. I make about 1200 a month, and we live in a small two bedroom duplex. My question is should I tuff it out, and stay with him? I know we will never live in a nice big house, drive nice vehicles, and have stuff. We will always have to scrimp and save. He treats me with respect, and loves me. Or should I move on and hope to find another man that will treat me as good that makes more money?
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Virginity
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 6:39 pm
Ok so Ive known this guy about a month in a half and we just started dating like a week ago. Things sorta went fast, maybe I little too fast for my comfort, but nothing I can do now. Anyways, we recently had sex and he was my first; we did it 3 times. I cried while driving myself home from his house, he lives 30 min away from my house; I had to pull over 2 times because I was crying so hard. I came home and talked to my best guy friend who I love dearly, he was trying his best to calm me down and everything. He kept saying it was normal to feel like this: empty, almost wishing you hadn't, just cold.... like someone just did the most rotten thing to you but worse. My best friend is away for a week and I cant talk to her and I need to talk to...
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extremely important question!
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 5:50 pm
13/f
My best friends friend who i meet on AIM, is now my boyfriend...i havent met him yet but we say i love you and stuff. I'm not sure if i really want to break up with him but i dont want to have my first kiss with him. I mean he's nice but not cute, and i dont know if i should tell him i dont want to kiss him becuase he said he really wanted to,can anyone help me?
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kinda confused
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 3:38 pm
well i really like thsi boy from camp and i kinda thinks he likes me cuz he smilea at me and stares at me but i'm still not sure but anyways the bad news is that camp is over but he migth go to the same camp again next year because he has been going to the same camp and same week for teh past 3 years and i hav his sn so i wanna tell him i like him but how this is where i am confused and dont kno how to tell him plz help
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army boy
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 3:13 pm
im 19 yrs old, college sophomore, i met my ex "james" when i was a senior in high school. strangley enough my friend "pat" put my pic up on hot or not and "james" saw it and clicked meet me. come to find out he went to my high school and graduated a few years ahead of me. his brother was also one of my high school friends.
he was in the army when i met him, (this was in december of my high school year) he had been over seas for 2 years. we talked online and on the phone to eachother every chance we got and he came down on leave for his brothes grad party which i was invited to because his brother and i were friends.
we started hanging out and eventually dating. i broke up with hi...
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I wanna meet people!!
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 2:55 pm
Hey Everyone!! Well I've been hanging out w. my group of friends for a really long time now and after a while it gets kind of boring to be hanging out w. the same people.. My ? is does anyone live in Central Jersey (Manalpan, East Brunswick, Spotwood, Sayreveille) or near that area that wouldn't mind meeting some1 new and possibly introducing them to there friends?? I know this sounds like a really weird ? but I really would appreciate an answer!!I really am up for meeting new people and having a good time. Xo>
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Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 2:45 pm
my sis broke up with her bf last night and she is 21 and im 13 and i dont know what to tell her to make her feel better i really want to help her cuz im sure she would help me if something like that happened to me please help me
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Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 2:24 pm
when i was in fifth when we used to kiss it use to be tap and now im in 7th and every one is tounge kissing and im scared that if i go out with someone hes gonna wanna french kiss and i wouldnt mind but i never tounge kissed anyone before and i m scared im gonna do somthin wrong and hes gonna tell people im a bad kisser cause i dont know how to french kiss now how can i learn how
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How can i help my hunnie?
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 1:59 pm
Okay well I have asked a question about jailbate before but I have another problem... See my luvr has a speech inpediment. And I don't notice about that any more but when he talks to my friends or someone who dunno him ppl juss give him a smile or ask him to repeat i feel awful about it but i wish i could love him up more to get rid of the pain and all the teasing. He doesnt deserve that. Is there anyway i can stand up or be more lovely?
Thanx your advice would rlly help me out =) ~steph
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what's a good song?
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 1:24 pm
what are some good songs to let people know how muhc you love them and miss being with them. please help me! i really need some good songs to express how i feel. thanks much!
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3rd times a charm?
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 10:37 am
Okay, well I dated this boy back in February. Our relationship only lasted a week because he kissed someone else, and so did I. We got back together a couple days later, and that only lasted about 2 weeks. A month or so after, he got a new girlfriend and was with her for a month. After he broke it off with her, he started 'talking' to me again. However, it was then that he had to leave all summer on vacation, and I didn't get to talk to him for over a month. Now he's back and wants to get back together. The problem is, he is the boy in school that every girl wants, and every guy wants to be. I have major jealousy issues, and it kills me having to deal with every girl being in love with him. I don't feel like I'm good enough. He's leaving ag...
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Not talking
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 10:16 am
When my boyfriend & I started dating, naturally things were a bit weird at first. Then we became more comfortable around eachother & it started to seem like it was more about touching then talking. Now we talk on the phone more since we're back at school & don't get to go out as much. The day before yesterday, everything was fine & we were having a great time on the phone but yesterday he didn't call me. I texted him & we had fun texting back & fourth but then when I signed on he didn't IM me. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting (please don't be mean if I am, it's my first relationship). I'm hoping he's just overwhelmed by school because I really care about him & I would hate to think that I felt stronger about him ...
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HiPSx
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 4:05 am
do guys think its unnatrictive when your hip bones like stick out and they're a little wider than the rest of your body? xoxo
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Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 3:00 am
okay my boyfriend n i are both virgins....but we do fool around n last night we did and he fingered me n went down on me and that night i noticed i was bleeding a lil which i didnt think much about because i figured he just kinda ripped me cuz i know thats normal well today it was like i had my period but i jus had it not last week but the week b4 that and my periods not like that im 17 yrs old i think i would know. n the botom of the tampon is the only part that gets bloody and the string and its a REALLY dark color blood. N i was wondering if a guy goes down on you n he kinda sucks on you when you orgasm...can that cause you to bleed? Or should i be concerned?
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im in love with 2 friends and an x bf
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 1:34 am
latly i relized that my closest friend dana liked me back but she has a bf. so she dosent wanna think that way of me in that way. that kinda bums me out. but yet i got this friend i've know for about 4 years and well i've loves him since like grade 6. but i dont think he likes me back. he never gave me a streight out awnser. then there is my xbf brandyn who i broke it off with. its a really long story and i dont wanna talk about it. long story short i freaked out on him and i feel really bad for breaking it off. *sigh* her is my question. which one should i focuse my heart and love on? and please dont say flip a coin.
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uuugghhh
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 1:25 am
ok well there is this boy, B, and B loves a girl named C. well they have been going out for about 2 weeks. and this other girl S likes the boy B. so C and S likes B. and then B found out S likes him so he started likeing both of them. and they always use MY HOUSE to hang out at! it really annoys me. well B and C dont really see each other and S and B do. but right now B is still going out with C. and B and S are always here! am i wrong? i am getting really pissed. i just dont knoe anymore, please help me, i will rate high
<<- sorry so long->>
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dakoda choate
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 12:44 am
i like this guy
names dakoda choate hes 1 grade higher than me
i cant stop thinkin about him
he is so sweet to me
he flirts nonstop
he acts like he likes me
i asked him out
and he said: i really can't right now but i promise you i will get there i just have alot on my mind right now
so ok
i wait............ my friend asks him if he likes me not and he says:
look i like girls my age ok?
does that mean he only dates his age
he doesnt like me, he moved away from me, he just wants to be friends,
i think im gonna cry
what do i do about this?!
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hung up on the unimportant
Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 12:27 am
I've been friends with this guy for about 2 years now, and a few months ago he confessed to me that he really likes me. i told him i wasn't sure about my feelings (beyond friendship) and that i didn't want to rush anything, and he was okay with it. we don't see each other too often, but i enjoy the time we spend together. i'd be ready to take the relationship further because we really are a good match personality-wise and i do like him a lot, but the only thing that bothers me about him are his looks. i hate admitting that to myself and i'm ashamed that i let it stand in my way. he's a really great guy, but physically he's like a 3 on 10! i know i should be able to, well, look past his looks, but it's hard to imagine being more than friends...
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i love him but he lives to far away
Posted Tuesday August 9 2005, 11:55 pm
14/f
there is this guy i met at camp hes really sweet and everything my age and since the camp has ended which just ended three days agoi have spoken to him for everyday for three days for like an hour a day i dont have anything to talk about now and i cant hang out with him cause he lives far away and were just friends but we now have like nothing to talk about. please help
ps remeber i cant hang out with him he lives like 8 hours away
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help me!
Posted Tuesday August 9 2005, 11:45 pm
okay so tomorow im going to this girls house, we have liked eachother for 3 yrs and are going out, i am gonna get there at like early in the morning while she is still asleep, i was going to make her breakfast in bed but she doesnt realy eat breakfast cuz she has a weak stomach. I really want to do something sweet so she wakes up to a wonderful surprise and realizes how much i care about her, any great suggestions would be nice...thank you!
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