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dakoda choate


Question Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 12:44 am

i like this guy
names dakoda choate hes 1 grade higher than me
i cant stop thinkin about him
he is so sweet to me
he flirts nonstop
he acts like he likes me
i asked him out
and he said: i really can't right now but i promise you i will get there i just have alot on my mind right now
so ok
i wait............ my friend asks him if he likes me not and he says:
look i like girls my age ok?
does that mean he only dates his age
he doesnt like me, he moved away from me, he just wants to be friends,


i think im gonna cry
what do i do about this?!


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shutupnkissme98 answered Thursday August 11 2005, 1:22 pm:
well first of all DONT CRY!!! i no its hard to belive but hes JUST A GUY!theres gunna be millions of other guys that you like out there.as for this guy i think you should just forget about him and move on. and go for someone your own agem,you be ale to relate them more.hope i helped XoXo

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demon22 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 5:37 pm:
just try to get over him and go out with a guy that likes you and you like

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 11:42 am:
i think you should move on and leave this guy alone.. he isnt worth it.. and dont cry over him because ** no guy is worth your tears and the ones that are wont make you cry** some guys are werid and we girls can never figure out what they try telling us all the time.. hope this helps you out..
*~Stephanie~*

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XStLpRide2005X answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 10:27 am:
well what this means that he dont like you well i am not good at this stuff bud try to fluirt with him and see if he flirts back bud anything else my girlfriend will have to contect you on this one SoRRYZ

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TheCynic answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 9:13 am:
I apologize if you think I'm being mean:

You don't do anything, except maybe move on.

See, the thing is with asking a guy out is that no matter what the excuse when he turns you down, he's still saying no... some excuses are believable, but if he's being vague about it, and not apologizing profusely for it, then there's a good chance it's just a nice way of saying no. Next time let him approach you if he seriously wants to date you, if he doesn't then go find someone who does. (I usually give a guy about three weeks, and if he doesn't make a move, then give up.)

He sort of means what he says. He may seriously only want to date girls his own age, but it just sounds like an excuse to tell you that he's not interested in you, and doesn't want to date you. Harsh, but true. So now you're going to ask me why he didn't tell you the truth.

I'll tell you why.

He'd rather have his arms torn off of his body by wolves with rabies.

As in, he's a coward.

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twistedsister17 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 9:04 am:
Don't cry sweetie. Boys can be like that sometimes.I think he likes you, but he's afraid to admit it because he doesn't want his friends making fun of him for dating someone younger. I don't know how old you are, but sometimes its weird to date people different ages when you're really young, but once you get older, it doesn't matter. Just don't push things with this guy, just be patient and understanding. But if hes ignoring you, don't even bother with him! He doesn't desserve you anyways. Don't feel bad either, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you, that guy is just being extremely ignorant. I know how you feel...

Much love,
--Johanna

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xHC0Barbi3x answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 4:52 am:
ya. theres nothing really that you can do =/ i would try talking to him about it but dont sound to desperate. If he doesnt do anything i would just move on. maybe he will change his mind. guys do that. hope i helped! xoxo
♥ Lauren

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brunettecutie answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 1:13 am:
if he did that to you he is worth NOTHING. dont cry over him. he is not worth it. now i know thats really not what you want to hear but its true. i know its going to be really hard to forget about him but try to. he is selfish. maybe he does wanna go out w/ girls his own age, then fine, let him do that. hes not worth it and he did not do it bc of you.

brunettecutie**

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jordan12xo answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 1:08 am:
There are two things you can either tell him how you feel or move on. If you tell him how you feel you might feel more comfortable or make the cituation a little akward if you dont youll be wondering what would happen if you did ask so i say do what you think would make you feel better

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karenR answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 12:57 am:
Some guys just hate it when they are asked do you like so and so questions. That's what it sounds like to me. He probably thought he answered your question and didn't like it that your friend then asked again. I would give it more time and if nothing changes in how he treats you...you ask again. Not a friend, you. :)

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Teza answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 12:54 am:
He did say that he likes girls his age so I guess it means he dates girls his age. Its kind of pathetic but thats just him. Try not to be upset but its his loss and there isnt nothing wrong with you. Its okay to cry but its better to be friends then nothing else. Im sorry babe. =(

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