urmomsachltcvrddnt answered Thursday August 11 2005, 1:46 am: Heh. I don't think so. Bigger hips give you a more matured and developed look. There's nothing wrong with that. Besides, I don't think guys pay too much attention to anything......no offense!!!!
Advicewiz<3 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 11:57 am: It is very normal for girls during puberty to have to grow into your bodies. They may stick out now, but sooner than you know they will look normal and less wide. Hope this helps
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TheOldOne answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 8:44 am: It's hard to say. If a girl's hip bones are sticking out because she was really thin, then I'd say that most guys would not find that attractive. But it wouldn't be the hip bones that they'd find unattractive; it would be the extreme thinness.
Personally, I'd have to wonder if a girl who was that thin had anorexia or bulimia.
On the other hand, if you're asking whether or not guys find wide *hips* attractive, most of them do. Most girls DO have hips which are at least a little wider than the rest of their body, and for a very good reason. Human beings are unusual in that our babies have extremely large heads at birth, which makes childbirth more difficult for us than for most other species. Wide hips are a positive survival factor: they make it easier for a woman to give birth, and recover quickly from the experience.
So wide hips send a subliminal message to the male mind. They tell men that here is a potentially successful mother for their children.
All attractiveness is ultimately based on reproduction. Anything that appeals to any of us, sexually, involves that factor in our brains. A clear complexion indicates good health, as does a good-looking face. Broad shoulders in a male indicate strength and the ability to provide food for a mate and for children. We don't consciously THINK about attractiveness that way, but deep in our brains, that's the calculation we all make.
The funny thing is that in many ways that doesn't really make sense any more. A narrow-shouldered computer programmer can usually provide more money - and therefore food - than a broad-shouldered ditch-digger. But our brains evolved in very different circumstances than we live in today. In ancient times, it took male strength to kill animals for food - and so, women are still attracted to strength today.
On the other hand, even with modern medicine a broad-hipped woman has a BIG advantage when it comes to childbirth.
I've gone on quite a bit, so let me sum up: broad hips in a woman are very attractive to most men. As long as they're not *boney* hips - excessive thinness indicates that a woman is less likely to be a successful mother. [ TheOldOne's advice column | Ask TheOldOne A Question ]
unprettysecrets_x answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 8:37 am: Awh, of course not. JackSpot, shut the fuck up. You don't have to be a complete dick and hurt her fucking feelings, why don't YOU go jump off of a bridge and land on some concrete? it'd be greatly appreciated. And, to your questions, love handles are better than none. Just as long as your not 967% anorexic. ;p [ unprettysecrets_x's advice column | Ask unprettysecrets_x A Question ]
Anthony_d answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 5:51 am: Love handles!!! Deffo not no!!! Its infact more attracive it gives a little more accent to the body and currrves(whsh is what men mean when they say a woman has nice curves)
Hope i helped
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