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i want to be smart.


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 9:43 pm

i use to be an amazing student- always did my work, never failed a test, teachers loved me, etc. ever since high shcool i just slowly got stupider. i dont know why and with that, made me stop caring. now i feel like im a failure and that im so foolish and i hate it.

how do i get smart- i know that sounds absurd but i just need to know

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arm fat


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 9:41 pm

how do i get rid of arm fat/flab?

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Macbook videos


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 9:14 pm

You know how you can leave videos on peoples facebook wall? well, my friend left me one tonight and she had like all these animations with like face things and high pitched voices. how can i get that for my macbook? im not sure if she has a mac or not.

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i love my best guy friend.. but my boyfriend...


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 8:28 pm

15f
so i have this guy friend who i liked for like ever, and he finally made a move.. but i was already about to get with this guy, and the guy who is my bestfriend held my hand and i kissed him, but my dad would never approve.. well he would but then he wouldnt be able to come stay the night with my brother.. and they are bestfriends.. and so therefore our relationship would be a lie and secret.. and i want a real relationship.. so i am dating this guy who is amazing, but i keep seeing my friends face, and my boyfriend said he loved me and he cares.. but my friend has always been there.. now we are in a fight.. and i care so much for my friend.. but feelings are forming for my boyfriend.. and i dont know what to do.. this should be ...

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Something more?


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 8:11 pm

15/f
I have one class with this guy. He's 15 like me too. He asks me questions like what I did over the weekend, and we crack jokes and flirt sometimes. I just met him this year in the class but I want to take it farther. I want to maybe hang out with him outside of school or just be able to have a conversation that's not about the homework in the class were taking. I could talk to him on facebook but I don't want to freak him out. He's shy and I don't know his friends and he doesn't know mine. I also don't want to throw myself at him. Most guys if they like me will talk to me outside of school but I feel like he doesn't like me yet but I want to get to know him

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i love my coach


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 8:06 pm

So I talk to my coach every single day in her office. She knows all about my past, my drug use, my family, my friends, everthing there is to know about me. I know that she cares a lot about me because i am the only player that she texts on a daily basis, and she is always wondering how my day is going. However, i am her player, and i am 18 and she is 25. I wish everything could work out between us, but i know that it cant. She thinks im psycho, and im her player. I really wish i could tell her, but i know things would be weird after that...what should i do? no one else knows how i feel except my best friend from home who does not know my coach. i dont want people to find out how i feel.

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Am I normal?


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 7:52 pm

16/f

I consider myself a straight individual. I've always been attracted to guys, and I'm only interested in having a romantic relationship with a guy. But sometimes I question if I am weird or not, because I like to watch porn. Especially girls, either with another girl or with a guy. It really arouses me and makes me consider want to like, touch and goof around with another woman and their bodies. However, like I said I would never want a relationship that way. Its like a curiosity, I guess.

Is this normal? Is watching porn bad? I'm just really afraid my parents might find out or my friends.

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calves


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 7:52 pm

okk...im 14, and weight 132 lbs...and my calve muscles are so annoying,,,they are 14 inches....is there anyway that i can slim them down...i've been running for a month now and that has not been effective at all...
is there any exercises recomended to reduce inches on calves??

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cup replacing a tampon (WTF????)


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 7:28 pm

my mom was telling me about this thing last night that replaces a tampon when you're on your period. its a cup-type thing and when you stick it in, it "collects" the blood i guess? and you take it out every few hours to empty it and you keep reusing it.

does anyone know what on earth i'm talking about and where i could get one? thanks. i'd look it up myself but i'd have no idea what its called or even what to search. so thanks in advance.

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douching(?)


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 7:26 pm

so after going 17 years without knowing what it was, my mom finally explained it to me last night. and i asked her if i should be doing it and she said no.

but the problem is she doesnt know that im sexually active...well im not so much anymore, but i have been and might be again soon. i havent had sex since the beginning of july. should i still be douching? and if so...where on earth would i get something to do that?

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Being Assertive


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 6:45 pm

I am a naturally extremely passive person. I let people walk all over me and rarely stick up for myself. Having to say excuse me to someone even makes me nervous. I have no problem asserting myself to my friends. How can I be assertive? I don't really want to be aggressive either, which I can be towards my parents and a particular teacher. Furthermore, the thought of even asserting myself makes tears well up in my eyes a bit, so any advice on not bursting into tears when defending myself would be useful too!

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Best Friends


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 4:19 pm

You can have more than one best friend can't you?

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hmm..


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 3:43 pm

this lad i like in the year above in school is really cute an i have kinda fell in love with him. i was thinking about getting to know him abit better so that maybe in the future we could go out with each other and have a realtionship with each other. i was thinking about getting to know him abt better and having convo's with him on msn and then having convo's with him in school but i dont know were to start, what to say to him on msn that would make an exciting cono because he gets bored with the same old '' what you been up to'' any ideas please? thanks (:

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Piercings


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 3:28 pm

Hi I want a piercing and I REALLY want a helix piercing,
1) does it hurt
2) does it hurt more than having your nose done?

Thank you everyone

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Dreaming.


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 3:17 pm

Alright so I have a few dream questions.

What does it mean when I dream about my crush/ex really good guy friend calling me on the phone and telling me he 'loves me alot'

And what does it mean when I dream about my bitch ex bestfriend and her starting the friendship up again?

AND what does it mean when I dream about ghosts moving things in my house and basically scaring the shit out of me?

Thanks

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WHY ARE THEY BEING SO RACIST WITH ME?!?!


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 1:32 pm

ok so last year, this gang of boys used to tease me about my skin color and gave me a nick name...bb black b!^@# ... :\\\'( i cried lots...and i wasn\\\'t a snitch so i didn\\\'t tell on them. well this year, this is what one guy said to me.. pretend my name is leslie. so this was a conversation on fb..commented on my closest friend\\\'s status...i have brown skin...why do they make fun of me?? i dont wana snitch on them...coz they will hate me even more. now i feel like running away. or going to my hometown where im safe with my family members :( help me please!! i\'d rather talk to someone privately...but can\\\'t send email addresses here. .. ..and is it good for my friend to keep helping \\\"boy\\\" even if he made fun of me??...

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mastubation


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 12:32 pm

Hi i have habit of masturbating when see sex videos or when i read any sex stories.its continuing for the past 6 years i am 23 years old will it create any problem in my sexual life in my married life in future please reply me..how come i am able to stop it

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Is it possible for a virgin to fall pregnant? If so, what are the chances?


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 11:43 am

I need advice, I'm 15 and my boyfriend and I haven't had sex so I'm still a virgin. We do play with eachother though and he did ejaculate next to me. I fear it may have touched the opening. I'm worried that I may be pregnant as I have missed my period although they were sometimes irregular anyway, I'm still worried. Is it possible for a virgin to fall pregnant? If it is, what are the chances?

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First pap


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 11:37 am

Yesterday I had my very first pap. The doctor asked when my last period was and I said two weeks ago. She asked me if I was lying because I was due for one tomorrow (today). Now I'm bleeding down there and it's bright red. My period has never been this colour and the last time my cycle was messed up was the last time I was on birth control. Could the bleeding be because of my pap, or is my cycle hating me again?

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My period is late


Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 5:01 am

My period is 2 weeks late but my breast has been sore for about 5 days now. What could it happened? I've also been sick for 5 days (the week that my period was supposed to come) and I didn't eat because I had upset stomach. Btw I'm 20 years old.

P.S. I'm not pregnant because I have never had sex and I'm still a virgin.

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