Question Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 1:32 pm
ok so last year, this gang of boys used to tease me about my skin color and gave me a nick name...bb black b!^@# ... :\\\'( i cried lots...and i wasn\\\'t a snitch so i didn\\\'t tell on them. well this year, this is what one guy said to me.. pretend my name is leslie. so this was a conversation on fb..commented on my closest friend\\\'s status...i have brown skin...why do they make fun of me?? i dont wana snitch on them...coz they will hate me even more. now i feel like running away. or going to my hometown where im safe with my family members :( help me please!! i\'d rather talk to someone privately...but can\\\'t send email addresses here. .. ..and is it good for my friend to keep helping \\\"boy\\\" even if he made fun of me??
boy: im happy as long as that ugly bitch dies
girl two: what?!
boy: leslie (me, pretend im leslie the one who wrote this)
girl two: you seriously need help. =p
boy: she seriously needs to get hit by a car
girl two:. that\\\'s really mean :/ why would you say that?
boy: its harram, or sin to be that ugly
girl two: -_- have you looked in the mirror l8ly? haha jk! i\\\'m joking ok.!! :s
boy: yeah i know what jk means ;)
girl two:^^ good.. :d
my close friend:....i don\'t know what to say....
girl one: boy....get a freakin life...your so freakin meannnnnnn
and no one can b as ugly as you..:p
boy: least im not in love with carl ;)
girl one: wtfffffff im not in luv with himmmmmm you freakin idiot!! you big mouthed asshole!! :p
my close friend: i\'m with girl one!...she called you an asswhole n deserve it!!...(its for boy).....im jst too nice tht im still helpin you man!!
If it's in school, don't worry about being a snitch. You need to discuss this with someone in authority. If it's happening in your neighborhood, then you need to get your parents involved. This kid has no right to harass you and you are under no obligation to tolerate it. It is harassment, pure and simple.
This creep needs to be knocked down a few notches.
If it's any consolation, people like that have very low self esteem and they lash out at others that they feel are weak and can't or won't fight back. The only way they can boost their own weak ego is to push someone else down. They are pathetic, nevertheless, he needs to be put in his place. [ Smartone's advice column | Ask Smartone A Question ]
Katlyn answered Thursday December 3 2009, 9:07 am: This person is just immature and racist so ignore him and anyone else who says things about your skin or teases you and if it doest work your going to have to tell someone because things could get out of hand because he doesnt seem very nice or calm about this and just for your saftey if this doesnt end please tell your parents there your own blood and will only help you out nothing else so if my advice doesnt work which is ignore and walk away and dont engage in confrontation then tell your parents and have them deal with it and you wont be a snitch because this is serious and this guy needs to learn how hurtful and mean it is now. Good luck :) if you need anything else feel free to ask :) [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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