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Between the Pulpit and the Pew
Posted Sunday December 9 2012, 12:24 am
I’m in love with my pastor and I can tell by the tenderness in his eyes when he looks at me, that he is in love with me as well. Nothing has ever happened between us, so why do I feel such a sense of shame? God is love: At least that's how I try to justify our feelings for one another. Neither of us asked for this. In fact, we have never even spoken about it. It just is what it is and it's extremely strong.
This man is married, has children and a prominent (mega church) pastor who has thousands of women at his disposal, if he so desired to exploit his position in that manner. So, I'm having a difficult time understanding, why his heart is turned toward me. I'm having even more difficulty understanding why he has ent...
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how to dump a girl who loves u so much: I NEED ADVISE on how to end things
Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 9:57 pm
I met this girl at a school camp and she just saw me and just fell in love,so when I returned home she was already having my numbers from my friend..she just told me how much she's into me so I just told her that we can try and see where we will end so now I think she's not the right girl for me,I don't love but I just care for her so I just wanna make things clear to her so I NEED ADVISE on how to end things
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i dont know if me and him are just friends or more.
Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 9:22 pm
hi:) ive been txting and hanging out with this boy and i cant figure out where we are in our relationship nd ive asked him before and he just said lets hangout some more an well see but our relationship has gotten a lot deeper now and i really like him a lot and i dont know what to think. if anyone has any advice to give its greatly apprciated...thanks :)
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How do I get him to put more effort in?
Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 8:57 pm
F/16
I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now, we've been really good together but lately he's been acting a bit cold. He doesn't text me that often anymore, or when he does... It's always me texting and starting the conversation first, he's acting like he's not interested anymore. I will admit, I'm telling him what to do, well not necessarly telling him. But whenever he does something I don't like, whether it's hanging with girls or speaking to them etc, I tend to go moody and be really stressy. I have no idea what to do, I've tried to ask him if I've done anything wrong but he says I haven't and goes back to being cold. He's never affectionate towards me anymore, I never hear the words "I love you" unless it's m...
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does he even give a crap?
Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 6:04 pm
He never treats me like his girlfriend, he pretty much treats me like his sister. But its like he's a whole different person when he texts me. What should I do?
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What do I do if he asks me out and when I say no he cries?
Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 11:02 am
What happens if he asks me out but im not allowed to and when i tell him he cries?
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Is my relationship being sabotaged?
Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 7:57 am
Your Open Question: Why would my girlfriend plant an earring that isn't hers in our bedroom?
Before you answer with the obvious maybe she didn't or I'm just paranoid. I rummaged through our kitchen garbage and found the matching earring tied up in a bag inside the garbage can. Why did I search for it? Because I wanted to prove my innocence and I knew she was up to something. The question I want to pose is as follows. Is this a manipulation attempt, or she trying to break it off with me?
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Love -v- trust
Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 7:00 am
Hi there
This question is off the back of a bigger dilemma I'm in which I will address at a different time but one thing I need help with right now is the following-(also just for this question I'm going to refer to these two men as guy 1 and guy 2)
Ok guy 1 I love deeply its a love that's got deeper over time he is caring loving fun etc all round great guy, it's had ups and downs like any love does but it is strong, he's never given me any reason to doubt him I trust him and never worry that he would stray. However the one thing that is a concern for me which is sex, I don't mean this to sound shallow in anyway because I do love him dearly but sex is only average, I pleasure him very well he is more than happy...
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do i love this guy?
Posted Saturday December 8 2012, 4:20 am
A few years ago one of my friends asked me if I would go out with his friend. I ignored him but then I saw the guy at lunch. When I saw him it felt like everything slowed down. My friend asked me again later that day. Then he said something to another friend that he didn't want to get punched. Do I love him or does he like me? I'm so confused
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what to do about a complicated relationship
Posted Friday December 7 2012, 10:24 pm
I am a 29 year old mother of 2 and I'm engaged to a man with his own daughter. We met at work and kept out relationship a secret for almost a year. 3 months into our relationship he started seeing another woman (who was married and preg.) as well. He was sleeping with both of us for 3 months b4 I found out. Then after our relationship was out in the open his daughters mom claims they slept together. He denied it but I believe her. After I moved in he started talking to the married woman again. I moved out but he once again talked me into coming back. He is addicted to the tv doesn't make me feel like I'm very important and I'm not comfortable around him. He never has asked about my past and tells me nothing bout his. Its a totally one sided...
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boyfriend doing steroids
Posted Friday December 7 2012, 3:59 pm
My boyfriend is doing steroids and ever since he's been doing them he's like a different person. I hate it and we always fight. I know couples fight but this is constant everyday fighting. I really can't take this anymore. I've asked him to stop taking them because its affecting us but he won't. Let alone I'm sitting back watching him destroy his body by putting this crap in it. I really can't do this anymore but all he does is tell me to calm down and it's fine and everything, but I know its not. What should I do?
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i need advice on keeping my marriage together
Posted Friday December 7 2012, 9:14 am
hello..my name is max.i come to seek help because i dont want to loose my wife thats been with me for 17 years.these couple of years have been rough for both of us financially and emotionally.recently me and my wife had a big argument that dint have a good out come of it.there was insecurity issues involved hurtfull words.and things that shoulnt have been said.i left the house for the same exact reason not to argue with her and let things just cool down.its been over 3 weeks and she still doesnt want to work things out.i have how ever apologise multiple times to her and the kids.but when i try to have a regular conversation with her she just attacts me and reminds me of the hurtfull words i said to her...please help me out ...i love my wife and i dont want to loose her...
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Choose Between Two Guys?
Posted Friday December 7 2012, 5:53 am
So I starting seeing this one guy a few months back. Nothing too serious came of it, but we became great friends and hang out whenever we can. The only downfall to this guy is that he rarely has some to spare. He works full time in the military yet is determined, intelligent, funny, loving, has a balanced lifestyle and when we are together he makes me smile alot. Not to mention he loves cooking from scratch/learning about food which I like because I am a chef. Yes, I do want to date him because he is one of those rare/perfect guys that I can connect with. BUt I guess I'm unsure cuz he isn't always going to be there for me, cuz of his job. That is one of the things I look for in a guy; to know that he is reliable and will be there for me whe...
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i need cute things to say to my gf
Posted Friday December 7 2012, 4:01 am
I always had the perfect words to say to my gf but after almost a year now I ran out of cute things to say, I always quoted movies and songs but now she's with me most of the time so it kinda makes things hard for me to quote something she hasn't heard yet... Please help!!! :(
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Restraining order
Posted Thursday December 6 2012, 11:08 pm
2 months ago me and my bf of 1 year broke up. He still loves me and i hung out with another guy and did stuff he found out and hes really upset and i understand why :(. He is crazy in love with me and hes not abusive or anything towards me. My mom wants to get a restraining order on him and i don't want that, i really don't :(. I'm 18 years old is there anyway i can stop my mom from doing that? Please help i am going insane about this all!
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I like this guy but ..
Posted Thursday December 6 2012, 10:13 pm
So i like this guy and he used to like me but im not sure about it anymore .. we flirt alot but i think he's playing .. I hung out with him like two weeks ago but he had a gf at the time and i wanted to kiss him so bad.. i didnt think i'd like him as much as i do but :/ ..how do i know if he feels the same way? he said im his bestfriend/potential girlfriend..
just tell me straight up please? help
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what should i do? I am a 29 year old mother of 2 and have been with my fiance for 3 years now.
Posted Thursday December 6 2012, 9:56 pm
I am a 29 year old mother of 2 and have been with my fiance for 3 years now. We had been seeing each other secretly for 3 months when he hooked up with another woman to. They saw each other for 3 months before I found out. They ended and I decided to continue with him. When it finally came out we were dating his ex girl friend stopped by his house and said she had slept with him a month before and had been at his house the day before this and the previous day I started to leave but he talked me out of . after I moved in he started talking to the girl he had the 3 month fling with again. I moved out a month later but went back. he will not tell me his feelings but will txt em and has admitted to putting video cameras outside the house to wat...
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Why doesn't the BFF like me, and why do I care?
Posted Thursday December 6 2012, 3:47 pm
Hello, my name's Brent, and I'm 20. I'm in a bit of a pickle with my girl friend's best friend. She doesn't like me. At all. And I don't get why! Anyway, if it's real love, it shouldn't matter what anyone thinks about it, right? But... I can't stop thinking about it! I REALLY want her BFF's approval. Why is that? Why do I care? It shouldn't matter, yet I keep sucking up to her, like laughing at her jokes, opening doors for her, etc. Now keep in mind, I DO NOT love the BFF in the slightest. But I like her as a person, and I DESPERATELY want her approval. So, my question, why do I want her approval so badly? Thanks folks!
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how do you know if youre in love?
Posted Thursday December 6 2012, 3:41 pm
hi 16/f my friends keep bugging me about my guy friend and i. apparently we look like we're going out, or are about to, i don't know. but they keep asking if we're in love, and i keep saying i dunno! how do you know if you're in love? i mean, i've never been in love, i don't think. how will i know when i've fallen in love with my guy friend? thank you
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to know if i have to tell a guy that i like him !
Posted Thursday December 6 2012, 11:36 am
My prob is that i like a guy but not sure if he likes me... our parents know each other for the past 10 years... though i haven't seen him or talked to him a lot, i have just seen him twice. The only thing we do is have a couple of silly fights through social networking site. i cant tell him that i like him as im afraid what he would think of me n that the relationship between our parents n between us wud end forever. I keep on thinking of this guy n unable to concentrate on anything. Can any1 pls advice me on this ?
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