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conversation ideas


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 9:18 pm

i'm trying to get close to this girl and talk to her more on aol so i can ask her out pretty soon. what kind of things can we talk about?

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not good enough for my boyfriend


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 7:38 pm

So basically I told my bf that I feel like Im not good enough looking for him and how i feel like nobody could be attracted to me. *this was all an online convo* and i asked "know what i mean?" and he said yeah..then made some excuse that he had to go do his hw. This gets wheels turning in my head..if im not attractive to him, how can this last?? :( help me

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like him


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 7:26 pm

i realy like this guy and i think he likes me to, but im not sure. how can i tell and how do i get closer to him
I'm 14 and a female


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I'm so confused.


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 7:06 pm

Okay well, I really like this guy. He's everything I want. Funny, intellegent, cute, long hair, sweet, kind and he skates. There's nothing more that I want then for him to like me back. The bad thing is that my friend likes him to. No one knows that I like this kid and I've been hiding it for a really long time. I don't think he has a clue and we are good friends and I don't want to ruen it by telling him that I like him.

I need help and FAST.

I'll rate for the advice you give. Just help. :{

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Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 6:52 pm

To start off, i'm only 15 years old. I've been with my boyfriend for five months. We just recently broke up, and a week after our break up he got a new girlfriend. I was really upset for awhile, and I couldn't even eat because of it. I cried just about every day. I constantly think about him, and regardless of how bad he treats/has treated me, I still have an enormous amount of feelings for him. I don't know why I can't get over him. My friend told me "If you can't get over him, maybe there's a reason". Is it possible I'm in love? Or what is it that I'm feeling? And why can't it go away?

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boys...


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 6:39 pm

okay, you probably don't remember me...i have the friend who used me to get his girlfriend and all that other stuff....well, now i've got a bigger problem. his girlfriend keeps saying stuff about me to others. like, my sister told me that she told some people i was trying to hook up with my best friend which is so not true. then she said something about me always hanging out with him. okay, before we had this whole situation, yes, i did hang out with him. we went to see a movie every once in a while and we talked on the phone for hours. but why does that matter? he loves her, not me. i'm not bothered that they're together. i'm annoyed that she makes stuff up about me. and now my best friend won't even tell her to stop. he defends...

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PLEASE READ!!! I'm SO CONFUSED!


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 5:08 pm

So I have liked this boy since the beginning of the year. We didnt know each other, but I just had a major crush on him. I am very outgoing, the thing is...hes super shy. He agreed to go to homecoming with me and we went and ended up having a blast. I think he just thought that I thought of him as a super cool guy. I don't think he got that I actually had feelings for him. Now, we don't talk a lot because I am super shy around him myself, and he seems like he might be intimidated. Yes, I'm a sophmore cheerleader, and hes a freshman football player, but does that make a difference?
Lately, he has started looking at me a lot. Whenever I walk by his table, he cannot stop staring at me. I feel like his attitiude is still "girls have...

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Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 4:29 pm

I liked this guy soooooooo much for like 2 years..and one of my so called "friends" told me he liked me and that he was gonna ask me out and i was SOOOOOOOOOO Happy..but a few days ago my best friend called me and told me that everything that my other so called friend told me was all a lie and i was bawling my eyes out forever..I like him sooo much and i dont know what to do

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i don't know


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 4:21 pm

i like this boy. i don't know if he likes me. he's cute, smart, and funny. i like this boy so much. i don't know what to do or say. can u please help me. i will rate high. thanks
sincerely,
someone

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he has a g/f..


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 4:03 pm

ok, i'm friends with this guy who has a g/f. But, he gives me signals that he likes me...For Example..I've been at my friends house while he's been there twice. Each time, we've layed either in the road or on the trampoline looking at stars. He asked me at school when we were gonna look at 'em again. I said "who knows?" and he told me that he looked at 'em over the weekend and he thought about me! He always hugs me and smiles at me when he sees me in the hall at school. Today, I saw him and he walked right by me, but i looked at him and he held out his hand and held it for a min. I'm confused...he has a g/f but he gives me hints! what's going on?

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how do i get him to notice me??


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 3:46 pm

ok so there is this guy that i have known since third grade and i have always kind of liked him but now i like him more. last year we were in alot of the same classes and yea he would talk to me but he didnt really give any clues that he liked me. now we are on the same team but we have no classes and i really want him to notice me but he is always busy talking to other girls((there not even on the same team as him))
he is kind of cocky so i dont want to seem like a freak if i do get him to notice me...so if anyone has any good adivice or thoughts please tell me!!

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mean boy


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 2:58 pm

ok so this guy i like and i are really mean to eachother.. i know thats a way of flirting but i mean REALLY mean to me. he tells me he wants me to die and stuff like that in front of his friends but when hes only with me hes nice.. i dont know why i like him, and i have tried to be nicer but nothing works..
aaahhh what should i do!?!

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A fight


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 2:46 pm

My boyfriend called me a hoe and i dont know wether 2 be mad @ him or wat? i mean he did call me a hoe and im not a hoe. I dont understand. and that shyt is mad fucked up.

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help!


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 1:35 pm

ok so im dating this guy ;; i REALLY like him and he likes me too ((obviously)) ;; but we live in diff. states and his mom is kinda wierd bout the whole thing ;; if anyones ever been in this situation or knows what i should do ;; reply to this ;; PLEASE ;; i rate 5s ;; ♥chassi

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old boyf magnet=me


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 11:41 am

ok its like this,
everyboy i have ever liked always happens to link back to my first prpoper boyf.......
1.graham- used to be friends with my ex and also shares the same name.
2.j.t -friends with my ex and shares the same taste in clothes and hair (he fancies me i dont fancie him)
3. paul - the 1st person i have fancied in a long time that doesnt involve my ex in any way.
My friend robin ased me to meet(french kiss)paul
and i came round to the idea and the more it dragged on before robin asked him the more i seemed to fancy him.Robin is a good friend of his and but he said no to meeting me.robin hasnt told me yet but i know coz i told kelly about it and she asked him (on the same day as robin CRINGE...

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Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 11:25 am

I like this boy alot and I know he likes me to. I'm not sure if he wants commitment with me though. I really would like to go out with him. All I ever think about is wanting to be in his arms. I feel so comfterble with him. More comfterble then ive ever felt. When we talk on the phone he says thinks like "if I was there I would hold you." And all this other stuff. I want to go out with him. How should I get him to ask me out or find out if he wants to go out with me or if it would be easyer how do I ask him out? Any ideas?

<3confused
I rate well

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Whats wrong with her!!


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 7:39 am

I'm 25 shes 19, known each other for 3yrs. Get on really well always laughing and flifting etc, lately shes split with her ex. We've done stuff before but no sex which is fine thats not the initial aim here, spent fair bit of time together recently, few kisses etc but then thats it. I'm sure she knows I really like her and she must like me too, but I fear if I lay it on the line with her she may clam up but if not then she'l certainly find someone eles soon, annoying thing is I'm a great guy and definately have qualities her ex's didn't she knows that too. (not meant to sound big headed). Which way should I go? We also work together so I always know when she's seeing someone and I think thats gonna start to do my head in, and if she isn't interested why is she leading me on!? Help please!

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is he embarrased of his true feelings for me?


Posted Thursday December 1 2005, 12:48 am

a guy that likes me that i'm friends with is always pretending not to know things about me when he really does. For example, he knows darn well how old I am and what day my birthday is but when he's in front of others he'll say, oh your (not my age) right? Or {when is your birtday?) He also treats me really bad when he's with his guy friends. He will ignore me, and when I talk to him him won't give me eye contact. But when he's alone with me he's sweet and attentive.
Why is he so afraid of what his friends think? Is it that he's embarrassed that he likes me?

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my best friend's ex


Posted Wednesday November 30 2005, 11:14 pm

my best friend (ill call her susie) was dating this guy (ill call him bob) for almost a year. they were always together, and it was obvious that they were deeply in love. susie is very loud and outgoing, and is not afraid to speak her mind. she can be a little bit of a pain sometimes. ive gotten in many (non-physical) figts with her that were so bad, that we had to go to counseling just to stay friends. weve been okay for the past 5 months or so. now throughout their relationship, ive always felt a little bit of chemestry with bob, and ive gotten to know him very well because susie would always take me with her to see him. they just broke up 2 months ago, and have both moved on. susie has a new bf, who is bobs friend. theyre not friends any...

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Become friends first...


Posted Wednesday November 30 2005, 9:02 pm

I didn't know if i should put this in friendships but anyways... i tried talking to the guy i have a crush on, but then someone came to talk to me and he left. all i could ask him was what he was listening to and what kind of music it was. I didn't get neither answers. Now i don't know if i should try talking to him again. if yes, what can i say? i feel like an idiot. i know i should just say hi but when i see him he like avoids eye contact... i tried to just smile and wave at him but he never looks at me so that doesnt work. well he does but not at the right times, like on the way to class or something... so what do i do?

by the way, i only want to be friends with him at first lol

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