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my best friend's ex
my best friend (ill call her susie) was dating this guy (ill call him bob) for almost a year. they were always together, and it was obvious that they were deeply in love. susie is very loud and outgoing, and is not afraid to speak her mind. she can be a little bit of a pain sometimes. ive gotten in many (non-physical) figts with her that were so bad, that we had to go to counseling just to stay friends. weve been okay for the past 5 months or so. now throughout their relationship, ive always felt a little bit of chemestry with bob, and ive gotten to know him very well because susie would always take me with her to see him. they just broke up 2 months ago, and have both moved on. susie has a new bf, who is bobs friend. theyre not friends anymore. and unfortunatly, bobs moved on to me. i have no doubt in my mind that im in love with him, and i can tell that he feels the same way about me. susie doesnt know, because i know that if she finds out she'll never talk to me again. shes threatened that if i ever do anything with him, she'll never talk to me again. im in love with him, but i dont know what to do.
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I've recently had the same problem, only the girl wasn't my bestfriend. If she has moved on, I don't see why he couldn't. First, you need to decide what's more important..Love or friendship? I, personally, would go for the guy. If Susie gets mad at you over it, then you shouldn't be her friend anyway. Moving on to Bob's friend wasn't nice of her either. Whatever you do, don't ask her about what she would do if you two were together. Just let it happen and then see what she has to say.
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iF YOU WERE REALLY BEST FRiENDS SHE WOULDN'T CARE - SHE WOULD WANT YOU TO BE HAPPY <33
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if shes your friend she will want you happy. dont deny what ya feel. go for it and tell her first so shes not shocked
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Well it sounds like you arent really even good friends with this "Susie" i mean..couseling? I dont see why she should care if you and "Bob" are together..shes moved on right? If she was really friends with you she would understand.If you and "Bob" are in love dont let her stop you..chances are,the way this friendship is going that you wont be friends with her very long anywayz.Hope i helped
Luv,Tay
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