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mean boy
ok so this guy i like and i are really mean to eachother.. i know thats a way of flirting but i mean REALLY mean to me. he tells me he wants me to die and stuff like that in front of his friends but when hes only with me hes nice.. i dont know why i like him, and i have tried to be nicer but nothing works..
aaahhh what should i do!?!
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Guys are jerks. He could be embarressed about liking you, the same thing happened to my friend. The guy denied even KNOWING her. You should try talking to him about why he acts like around his friends..maybe things could change.
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Someone who is mean to you like that you should not even want to be with. Seems to me lik ehe is concerned at what his friends would think if they knew he liked you --thats not good-if he liked you he would be not be mean to you no matter what--being mean is not a way of flirting unless you are jokingly being mean and laughing afterwards,but even still it should not be just in fron of his friends. you dont derserve someone like that and never settle for that either
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uhm. he`s trying to be cool in front of others. if he really liked you. it wouldn`t matter who was around, he`d be nice to you && flirt && stuff.* he isn`t worth it. he seems like a d*** who would end up screwing you over. trust mee
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Omg, he's so not worth it. If he was your boyfriend and he did this how would you feel?? He should be able to be honest with others about liking you. Either he doesn't like you or he's just rude and not worth it.
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i'm sorry to say, but i'm not sure hes feeling the same way about you as you do him. the next time he does that in front of his friends, then totally blow him off. think of a good come back or something. and maybe since hes only nice when you guys are alone, maybe he doesnt want to admit that hi likes you.........so give it some time
i really hope my advice helps, and i hope that it all works out.
~rachel
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Don't talk to him anymore! If that's how he treats you in front of people it could only get worse. If you ignore him for a while... just keep saying you're busy... then when he does finally really want to talk you can tell him that at first it was kinda funny/cute when he was mean, but it got old real quick and either he likes you and will be nice all the time or adios.
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he's not worh it =( i went through the same thing - i went out with a kid and he was still mean to me around his friends for some odd reason; then when we were alone - he said all like romantic stuff HOPE i HELPED =)
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Now I've heard of the "mean flirting" thing...but he says he wants you to die? That sounds very mature. Well if he's nice to you like you say he is whenever you two are alone, talk to him then. Ask him why he says all those really mean things and it upsets you whenever you hear him say that he wants you to die and stuff like that. Do any of his friends have a tiff with you or anything? Because he might not want to be nice to you in front of them because if one of them doesn't like you, they'll get mad at him maybe for being nice to you. Like I said, just talk to him whenever you two are alone and he's nice. If he doesn't stop being mean, the I'd suggest just forgetting about him. Because if he continues with that, he just sounds like a rude immature guy that's not worth your time to me. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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