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okay, you probably don't remember me...i have the friend who used me to get his girlfriend and all that other stuff....well, now i've got a bigger problem. his girlfriend keeps saying stuff about me to others. like, my sister told me that she told some people i was trying to hook up with my best friend which is so not true. then she said something about me always hanging out with him. okay, before we had this whole situation, yes, i did hang out with him. we went to see a movie every once in a while and we talked on the phone for hours. but why does that matter? he loves her, not me. i'm not bothered that they're together. i'm annoyed that she makes stuff up about me. and now my best friend won't even tell her to stop. he defends her and says i'm lying about everything. how can i be lying if she posts the crap she says about me online and everything? what do i do? he's always been a good friend, but lately it's just not worth it....
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Well this is a common problem. It seems to me that the girlfriend is just jealous because you are spending time with her boyfriend and hanging out with him, and she's not. She probably just doesn't want girls hanging around her guy. I would try just talking to her sometime. Ask her whys she's spreading those rumors and if she's worried about you two always hanging out, she shouldn't be because your just friends and nothing more. Also tell her that he loves her alot and he'd never do that. And of course he's going to defend her. It's his girlfriend. :/ Also, maybe even invite her along to hang out or something. Who knows? She could be a new friend so then all of you can hang out and have fun. I hope I helped.
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MELii
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you have to figure out if this is all worth going through. boys tend to change when they get girlfriends.. it's life. and girlfriends get jealous. it probably means that she's worried you might steal him away. and to tell you the truth he probably talks about you a lot. as hard as this sounds, i think you should confront her and tell her CALMLY that you don't like him that way, etc. don't get upset about this, try to resolve it.
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hunny let me tell you something first...besides yes i do remember you :)....he is not that good of a friend if he used you to get anuone--and if i was here i would be offended that he could not get her himself and had to "use" someone else to get to it--if he does that in somehting like this he is most likely to do it in reality to other things....now she is talking about you to other people and i know it hurts and sucks but you dont have to defend yourself to no one--if they want to believe her and not approach the situation then they are by no means friends either or good people. She does not seem to be very mature either b/c she is talking about someone else. So what if you did hang out with him and go to the movies or anywhere else--seems like she is jealous of you and is now trying to get you out of the picture. People who are jealous talk about other people to make them selves feel better. Now if your b/f is defending her its b/c he likes her and is going to listen to what she says,and you know what he is not worth it either. If he eas a good friend he would say something,she will proboly get mad but thats b/c again she is jealous. So what i would do is tell him exactly what you feel. Tell him he has been a great friend and you have had many good times together and you feel that now that he has a girlfriend things are different and that you are not walking away from him but the situation b/c you dont need the drama and lies and if he ever realizes whats its like to lose a good friend look you up. If he lets you walk away with no words said give him alittle time to think about it--if he still does not realize it then you dont need a friend like that. Keep me posted and if you need anything im online. Good luck sweets hope i helped
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Hey, i remember you, lol. Oh wow your friend is crappy. DUMP YOUR BOYFRIEND AND FRIEND. They aren't worth it AT ALL. If he's going to ecuse you of lying and back your friend up he isn't into you. He's into her, and not worth it. Your friend is SO not worth it saying crappy things about you. Dump them both, make new friends, and go on with your life. They're not worth wasting your life. :)
Hope i helped!!
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hey! (yes..i do remember you) well that is totally lame on what your friends girl is doing. i'm not sure on how to get her to stop posting the crap, but you definitley need to talk to your friend about it. lets see....next time she says something make sure they are together and walk up to him and tell him what you heard. if it is true she is bound to show it, and if he still doesn't believe you, then maybe get a couple other people to tell him what they heard too. after he hears from so many people (not just you close friends b/c then he'll think their just making it up too, but other people need to tell him too) once he hears it so much maybe he'll start beliving and do something!
good luck xoxo thanx for asking me! helpachick
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