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PLEASE READ!!! I'm SO CONFUSED!
So I have liked this boy since the beginning of the year. We didnt know each other, but I just had a major crush on him. I am very outgoing, the thing is...hes super shy. He agreed to go to homecoming with me and we went and ended up having a blast. I think he just thought that I thought of him as a super cool guy. I don't think he got that I actually had feelings for him. Now, we don't talk a lot because I am super shy around him myself, and he seems like he might be intimidated. Yes, I'm a sophmore cheerleader, and hes a freshman football player, but does that make a difference?
Lately, he has started looking at me a lot. Whenever I walk by his table, he cannot stop staring at me. I feel like his attitiude is still "girls have cooties and im not ready for a girlfriend". I really don't know, because he acts like hes infatuated with me, and I'm just in lust with him. We BARELY talk though. Yesterday, he said hi to me when I walked by him and that's because of his shy-ness.
I am so confused and I don't think I should be making moves and having my friends talk to him, and I think i should just back off for a little bit and if he wants to be friends, he will have to make the move.
What do you people think I should do?!
PLEASE RESPOND!!!
* I'm LOVE STRUCK *
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I definetly know the feeling. It's weird though, because you feel like having your friends talk to him might be over-doing it. But i think thats what you should do. Have a guy friend of yours, that talks to him alot mention you a few times around him. And you should let him know your feelings. Tell him you like him, and see what happens..then just go from there.
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This is crazyy! Almost the same exact thing happened to me! The only difference between my story and yours is that I'm a sophmore on Poms *the dance squad* and he's a sophmore football player. Hehe!
I don't like him anymore cuz he wouldn't make a move and I need a guy that would.
But my advice for you is that he probably is a little intimidated and sometimes freshman guys are a little immature but an immature relationship can be fun sometimes in a weird kina way.
I'd say you should just go right up to him *not in front of his friends he'd probably get embarrassed* and tell him that you think he's cute and has a great personality and would like to try dating him... If he says the same about you-Great! you've got yourself a new boyfriend
If he says that he doesn't like you like that and that he just wants to be friends-Big deal! So you maybe got rejected once? You'll forget sooner or later!
I wouldn't have your friends talking to him though because that could be a turn-off and intimidator also. I would do it yourself.. it will make a good impression on how you're going to handle a relationship with him... you'll talk to him about problems first-not blab to your friends and have them fix it!
Hope I helped!
Abs <3
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